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im10ashus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-16-05 09:30 AM
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My boyfriend's sex drive has fallen off the map.
It seems lately we are not being intimate but every couple of months. After 8 years I know things won't be what they once were, but it's starting to become a thorn in my side.

Is this normal? Everything else seems to work fine in the relationship but it would be nice to have a "normal" sex life again. He says he's not seeing anyone else and I don't suspect that he is.
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Brian_Expat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-16-05 08:04 PM
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1. Add some variety to spice things up. . .
. . . and consider a lifestyle change if that doesn't work.

For instance, is he (or are you) stressed over something? Ready for a change of scenery? A nice relaxing vacation? Some creative use for olive oil? Etc. ;)
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im10ashus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-17-05 09:42 AM
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2. I've done some varietal stuff.
He just isn't into that. He's so vanilla when it comes to sex, if it comes to sex, I should say. Olive oil could be fun. I think the vacation may be in order. I'll keep you posted. And THANKS for the tips.
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