by Tonya Kemble
Students at a northern Mississippi school got some truly disappointing news yesterday when they were told that prom would be canceled. If we can learn anything from John Hughes, it is that school dances are pivotal moments in the high school experience. So, why would the school board choose to cancel such a momentous event?
Constance McMillen has the answer. She is a student at Itawamba County Agricultural High School and she is a lesbian. McMillen wanted to wear a tuxedo and bring her girlfriend as her date. This request was against school policy, so Constance got the American Civil Liberties Union involved to help her out. While the school board did not specifically say McMillen's request is the reason why they decided to cancel the April 2, 2010 dance, they did cite recent "distractions" as a cause.
In a time when the nation's students are subjected to both old-fashioned, and perhaps more vicious, cyber-bullying the Itawamba County school district has put a gigantic target on Constance McMillen's back. They have essentially cast her in the role of the "Grinch Who Stole Prom" when all she wanted was the right to bring a date of her choosing.
Regardless of political or moral beliefs, parents should agree that schools must be a safe haven and a model for tolerance. Itawamba does have a non-discrimination policy, but this policy does not include sexual orientation. This is common for many schools. Locally, teens have gathered together to correct this omission.
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