Something is wrong with me. On a hot spring day a little over a year ago, my relaxing long stroll through the city was rudely interrupted. Tingling and numbness in my legs and right hand had been routine for years, but something new was happening now. The annoying tingle had turned into pain. Pins and needles were pricking the soles and tops of my feet as well as my ankles and going halfway up my calves. As I was trudging home, the ground suddenly rocked underfoot. For two or three seconds, I was sure the earth had quaked — but as I looked around the busy street, I realized I was the only one reacting, and then seconds later I realized that an earthquake in Washington, D.C., wasn’t very likely. Had I had a stroke? I made it home and stayed in bed for three days.
I called about 40 doctors’ offices in D.C., and all but two told me they were not accepting new patients; the two who were said they were seeing only new patients who were HIV-positive. That’s not me, I said, and kept looking.
Finally I found an office just outside the city¸ and after a routine examination, the doctor said we’d run an array of tests. He looked down at his prescription pad as he wrote orders for MRIs of my brain to rule out multiple sclerosis, my lumbar spine to rule out a bad back injury, blood tests for B-vitamin levels, and — he looked up and stared me square in the face for a moment and then looked back down — for HIV, he said. Then he checked off the HIV-1 and HIV-2 boxes on the blood test. The slight tremors I’ve always had in my hands turned into pronounced shaking — from fear.
I was born in 1978 and was severely anemic until age 5 or 6, I am told. I have vague memories of my father forcing food down my throat, and I can still taste and smell the liquid iron that became a regular part of my diet. My mother and father opted for a red meat–based diet and iron that turned my teeth black as a better alternative to the doctor-recommended treatment of blood transfusions. It was the early 1980s, and AIDS — or GRID, as it was then known — was the new black plague. The epidemic was a medical mystery, and my mother was not willing to take the chance of transfusing contaminated blood into her baby’s system.
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