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stevenleser Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-18-11 05:26 PM
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Will crosspost in GD - Please boycott this bigoted bridal shop in NJ
Edited on Thu Aug-18-11 05:26 PM by stevenleser
http://gothamist.com/2011/08/18/lesbian_bride_scolded_rejected_by_n.php

Lesbian Bride Scolded, Rejected By NJ Bridal Shop

Most people we've come across seem to have come to terms with, if not fully support and embrace, the passing of gay marriage in NYC, besides some Florida teachers, evangelical preachers, and crazy-eyed presidential candidates. Oh, and certain NJ bridal shop owners: a lesbian bride-to-be was scolded, and then turned away, by the manager of Here Comes the Bride in Somers Point, N.J.—"She said she wouldn't work with me because I'm gay. She also said that I came from a nice Jewish family, and that it was a shame I was gay. She said, 'There's right, and there's wrong. And this is wrong.' "

Alix Genter told the Philadelphia Daily News about her unfriendly reception at the bridal store. Genter had gone with her mother, father, aunt, a cousin and two friends of the family to try on dresses there for her upcoming marriage to her longtime partner. However, after the salon owner Donna Saber found out she was gay— because she'd crossed out the word "groom" and written "partner" instead on the paperwork—Saber refused to sell her the dress she picked out. She also left a voicemail saying that what Genter was planning was "illegal" and that "we do not participate in any illegal actions."

"I was devastated. I was crying. I called her a bigot; I told her, 'I am a happy person and you are a miserable person.' Then she hung up on me," Genter said. As Daily Kos points out, in NJ it is unlawful for a person to refuse to buy from, sell to, contract or otherwise do business with an individual because of the individual's affectional or sexual orientation.

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Ian David Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-18-11 05:26 PM
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1. We should all schedule fitting appointments and then not show-up. n/t
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-18-11 07:11 PM
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2. The manager is a member of Patriot Action Network, a tea bagger group!
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-18-11 07:15 PM
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3. You can hear the voice mail message the shop manager left at Daily Kos
This has to be heard to be believed. "What you are describing on this paper is illegal and we do not participate in any illegal actions. Thank you and goodbye."

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2011/08/18/1008228/-NJ-Bridal-Shop-Turns-Away-Lesbian-Bride
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