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As a woman and a person of color I am always surprised when I hear ANYONE of color express homophobic views, because I think anyone that is different in this country needs to be sensitive to the struggles of each other.
...I really wish there were more people like you. :)
I am a huge supporter of equality for everyone, right across the board, in all countries, not just my own, and not just your country. I was so thrown back a few weeks ago at work though, when I was accused of racial profiling.
I work in security for a major electronics chain here in Australia, in the loss prevention section. In this one particular store I was working in on this particular day, I usually have a partner rostered on with me. That way, one of us can always be at the door and screen customers, for when the alarms go off, while the other can walk through the store and keep our eye on people we suspect might be stealing. I know when I see a person of colour, whether they are from South Africa, the U.S, the U.K, etc, I tend to try to be a little more considerate, because I realize the discrimination the black community has faced in relation to crime.
What happened on this particular day though was, I was rostered on to be the guard on duty at store open. My partner was rostered on to on duty at 12:00pm. He showed up, and so I went on my first 15 minute break that I was able to have all morning. As always, I would pull people aside who were carrying back packs and ask to look through those bags. I do not discriminate against anyone, like I mean I will check all back packs regardless of who is carrying them. If it is an 80 year old, they will get checked, if it is a teenager they will get checked, if it is an Asian they will get checked, if it is a white person, they will get checked, if it is a black person, then they will also get checked.
Anyway, this one guy was leaving the store and he had a back pack, so I asked if I could look through it, well with that he accused me of racial profiling. I was shocked! I explained to him that I do not do such things. That I do check all back packs which is a policy of the company I am doing security for. And then I went on to explain to him that I know what discrimination feels likes, because I face it every day of my life. And that when I vote in any election I always vote with all minorities in mind. With that he looked at me, and said that queers are not discriminated against, that we have no idea what discrimination feels like. Then he went on and again accused me of racial profiling, so I asked him straight out why he thought that. His reply was, because he witnessed a white woman walk out of the store a short while ago carrying a back pack and she wasn't asked to open her pack. The I realized that I was actually on my break when that happened, and that my parter must have let someone out without checking the pack. The partner was a trainee guard which I was training up at the time.
I tried to explain it to him, but the guy just wouldn't listen to me.
I have been threatened several times while on duty. I have been abused at least once a day while on duty. I am currently sporting a lip injury from a guy who elbowed me in the mouth just a few days ago, but none of that adds up to the hurt this one guy caused me. That was the worst day, I have ever had on the job.
Anyway, sorry for the long post, but I wanted to get the point across that many in your community really do believe that us queers really aren't discriminated against. I make the connection to it is very similar to how a freeper thinks. They believe we are not discriminated against because we do have the right to marry etc. What they don't realize is, if we were to marry under the rights they say we have, then it wouldn't be a marriage formed from love.
I truly wish our communities could work together though. I do realize that there are a lot of people in my community who discriminate against people of colour as well, and it truly sickens me. Like you, I just don't understand how someone who faces discrimination can so easily discriminate against another person. But I guess we all need someone on the bottom of the shit heap to beat up on. It would be nice though if we could just realize we are all in the same area on that shit heap. And that is the bottom, where the repukes have placed us, after many years of hate, bigotry, and racism.
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