As a Christian pastor for more than 30 years, my heart goes out to Ted Haggard, a fellow pastor caught between the righteousness he proclaims and the gay reality he lives.
As the father of a gay daughter, however, I’d also like to ask whether Rev. Haggard’s behavior doesn’t make a point.
Central to those who find homosexual behavior immoral is the supposition of choice. Their view is that people living the gay lifestyle have simply made an immoral life choice.
Further, they argue that as Christians they have a moral duty to help prevent people from making such choices by removing any social benefits or commendations (such as the right to marry a same-sex partner) our society might offer.
My life experiences with my daughter don’t support that underlying supposition of choice. As a pastor’s kid, our daughter grew up in a typical struggling but loving family. My wife and I weren’t perfect parents, but we were not absent or uncaring parents either.
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