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more anathema to yoga than this athletic competition that many classes have become, which undermine your ability to tune into your own inner self--and how you really feel and what you really need--and instead focuses your attention on what you can DO, and, what is worse, what you can do in comparison to others, or in comparison to what you did yesterday. The teachers get a bit full of themselves, and their "best" students follow right along, pushing people who are not ready, into positions and practices that can cause injury--positions and practices that they don't ever need to do, in order to benefit from yoga.
I would just say: LISTEN TO YOURSELF. Pay NO ATTENTION to what the teacher says, or what the teacher or others can do. Yoga can be so good for you, but it HAS TO BE your thing, not theirs. This takes a really stubborn attitude, and I think it's very hard for Americans to let go of the idea of "a class," in which you are supposed to make "progress," and compete with yourself and others (including the teacher). The best yoga teacher would be a big fat Buddha who just sat there and didn't move and didn't speak. Or maybe moved one toe, or one finger, every hour.
Instead, a lot of yoga students these days are competing with TV ads of who they should look like, and what they should be able to do.
I've had one great yoga teacher, who said, "Yoga is your preparation for your death." Wow. That got my attention on the inner self. She said very little, all in all. She was very kind, and nearly free of competitiveness. (It's hard for any teacher to be entirely free of wanting to see "progress.") Yoga, to her, was relaxation, not sports.
Many people--I think Americans in particular--are discontent with themselves--deem themselves too fat, too skinny, misshapen, addicted to bad things, too stressed out, too lazy, haven't made their million yet and secured their own future in case Bushite society collapses, too unlovable, not muscular enough, not enough stamina, unattractive, not "lean and mean" enough, and on and on, and, really, yoga should be for all of these discontents to go away, so that people can just sit and move gently, as the spirit moves them--in sync with others, or not, obedient to the teacher's instructions, or not--in tune with yourself, and simply enjoying being alive. Cuz--as my wise teacher said--it's gonna end. And you never know when. And where's your head gonna be at that moment? Still into berating yourself? Still measuring your "progress"?
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