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One, boys are boys. They're attracted to aggression, for the most part. Why? Because boys are aggressive. They identify with such things. This is why there is such a thing as, as one of my female friends calls them, "boy movies;" Conan, or Boondock Saints, or Snatch, or what have you. Odds are, a male child will be interested in things like toy guns, action figures, tyrannosauruses, pirates, and medieval weapons (and the swords will shoot lasers, no doubt.) They have a fair chance of having less patience and a shorter attention span than girls their own age; most of the diagnoses of ADD are, in fact male children.
Myself? Shortly after reading Jack London's "Call of the Wild" in 2nd grade, I wrote a short story in a similar vein about wolves hunting. It was gory as hell. Was it because I was a "disturbed" child? Was it due to the "bad influences" of my saturday cartoons? Were my parents terrible people? No, I was just a kid who had a Y chromosome, and thought that wolves hunting a moose was a cool subject, and saw no need to pretend that they would do anything other than kill and eat the moose. Apparently my teacher thought they should have a salad, which brings us to the real problem.
Many teachers, and no shortage of parents and "experts" want little boys to behave like anything other than little boys. Perhaps it's because girls are easier to manage (though, looking at my own young nieces, I find this mildly dubious) or because some of the themes that boys are attracted to rub counter to what the person in authority has become comfortable with; My 2nd grade teacher was uncomfortable with the notion that a little boy knew what happened to the animal that predators caught, and no doubt a fair number of other adults would have been disturbed by my friends who painstakingly drew guns; big detailed futuristic comic-book style guns. Rather than beign commended on how well they'd done hte shading or how good the angles were, they likely would have been told it was "inappropriate subject matter" or something.
When you have a society that basically tells little boys to not be little boys, and then progressing through teen years and adulthood tells them to be embarassed of themselves for their sexuality (whichever way they swing; I'm straight and have had to endure no shortage of freaks insisting I'm a "latent rapist" because I'm male, I'm sure gay fellows have it worse) for their inclinations towards physical activity or interest in "weird stuff" to outright insisting that they're all stupid because they're male (Watch TV, it's the constant message, even on male-centered programs) THEN you will have problems.
Okay, that's the rant.
Second thing... What "comic book superhero of yesterday" is Professor Lamb talking about here? Superman? My god, did she ever READ an old Superman comic? The dude's a complete fucking asshole, a chauvanist, and frankly deeply violent. The golden age of comics universally portrays women as helpless and stupid, conniving and untrustworthy. How many times did Lois leave Superman for jimmy Olsen (how many times did Jimmy Olsen develop super powers?) Okay, how about Batman? Here's a deeply emotionally disturbed character who, even before being rolled in grit for the 90's, solved nearly every problem by beating the crap out of it; and let's not forget the pederasty angle from Robin, who always seemd to serve as innuendo-bait. Maybe Spider-Man could count as a "good role model" except for, you know, being about as neurotic and self-destructive as you would imagine a teenager who has radioactive blood would be; besides, compared to Supes and Batman, he's really rather new!
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