...and I can tell you this is a results of Wefare Reform. We tried to tell everyone. We tried to point out that corporate welfare even then, was literally thousands of times more of a burden on our tax dollars than poverty (welfare at that time was 4% of the budget, now it is 2%). WE tried to tell people what the results would be for millions of families. But N-o-o-o-o! Why not pick on a low income single mom instead of the greedy and heartless multimillionaire who was grabbing every tax dollar they could so they could sit by the pool and let the money roll in while mothers were forced to leave their children behind and work for these same millionaires for nothing?
You know what happens to these mothers after they can no longer get welfare? When I worked for transitional housing, it was mothers who had worked their butts off for nothing whose kids were now grown and they had no resource to turn to. Now they are being kicked to the curb with nothing to turn to, because they their health is gone, they have no retirement, no house to sell to live on because they have, well worked their butts off for nothing with psycho bosses who could give a rat's ass that their child is in the hospital, that their paycheck did not cover the rent and now the whole family is homeless, that she had to flee her home because she and/or her children were almost beaten to death and that is why she is forced to work this job, or that the mother herself is developing medical problems from bad workplace ethics, hazarded workplace issues or they are just plain worn out, 'that's not our problem, just quit complaining, get your apron on and get to work!'
I saw pregnant mothers working at a cabinet shop painting and staining cabinets with sprayers and no mask to protect them or their unborn babies with a health "benefit" they could not even afford because the deduction was too expensive, I saw mothers working in rat-infested fast food kitchens, I saw mothers working for some boss who loved to use what little power they had, manipulating situations that made their workers crazy, I have seen mothers trying to get to work at 5 AM and have to leave their small children alone because there was no childcare at that time, I saw it all.
Until we can actually be a country that cares about the coming generation more than some McJob, that values raising the next generation and does not leave the parents who raised them in the gutter and that sees things like alcoholism and drug addiction as illnesses indicative of the sick society we have, we will see what you see more and more.
Here is the organization I volunteer for and it needs financial backing, it is a 501C3 and is tax deductible:
http://www.wroc.org . It is one of only a few organizations standing up for low income mothers who need support actually BEING mothers, and who would like to see them not discarded after they have raised their children.
Thanks for your article, your voice is badly needed. It is about time we started to look at who the REAL welfare queens are, corporate CEOs who are taking far more of our resources than low income people!
Cat In Seattle