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(this was pre-welfare reform). I had 3 children, ex-husband refused to pay child support. I was lucky enough to get a Section-8 housing certificate that allowed my rent to be based on my income(which was good because being homeless with 3 children was no fun). I got $276 in cash and $405 in food stamps every month (I really don't know what it is now). This was from 1992-1996. I fought hard to get off of welfare, but, at every turn, it seemed like something went wrong. I did finally manage to get off of welfare, but that was part wanting to and a huge helping of luck. Without the support of other people, I never would have made it off.
When I first went on welfare, the food stamps came in paper and the cash came in the form of a check. About 6 months into it, they did start giving me it all on a credit card sort of thing (the "Independence" card... gag). I did actually like it better, even though I knew they did that to stop all us "criminals" from "getting rich". At least I could kind of hide it and pretend it was an ATM card. After a while of being on welfare, due to "I pulled myself up by my bootstraps, so these lazy criminals should be able to" conservative grumps, I was ashamed of being poor and generally only stayed alive because I didn't want my ex-husband to get my daughters. Most days, I wished I was dead and any time I was confronted with bigots like those people, I felt more and more powerless.
The Welfare Reform Act of 1996 limits most assistance to people. The ONLY good thing in that bill was that married people could jointly get assistance, if needed. That, at least, stopped poor fathers from moving out of the house so that the mother could raise the children, thereby keeping families together. The rest of it was crap and designed to stop assistance altogether or farm people out to the nearest KFC, where they could "earn their welfare check". (I kid you not. The law in Maryland was that you had to work or be looking for work for 20 hours a week. So, they started up a service to hook welfare moms up with fast food joints so that they could keep their checks and food stamps) I was in school then, and I was sanctioned because I was in school for 9 hours a day at a school an hour away from my house. The entire last two months of school, I only received 75% of my original money (they removed my part, but kept the amount for my daughters. If I had had only one child, I would have lost 50% of my money). They didn't sanction my food stamps, luckily, but $405 a month wasn't much in the first place.
You know, I did finally get off of welfare, but I was young and lucky and I also didn't have any disabilities. It haunts me to know that for every person like me who managed to make it out, there were probably 100 more who continue to suffer. It's disgusting how little of a safety net there is in "the richest country in the world".
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