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I foster labs, and I had 1 female who was really, really sweet. She was fine for the first few days while she was settling in to the house. Then, I was home sick one day and was napping on the couch. I didn't realize it, but the female was sleeping beside me on the floor. One of my boys, Eddie, was coming up to me to wake me up to let me know he had to go outside, and the female went after him. I guess I'm lucky, because my boys don't fight, and she just scared Eddie half to death. He chose to run. The female was disciplined and put in the crate for a while. But it shook Eddie up. Later that evening, she decided to challenge Gus. She was going neck to neck with Gus, leaning in. I broke them up a few times, because I don't like that, but they started right up again. So I stood close by to see what would happen. Gus stood his ground, and I don't know what went on in her mind, but she decided that she loved Gus.
I suspect that in that case, the female just had a need to know what the social structure was. She had to know where she stood. She was probably protecting me while I was sleeping, but that wasn't acceptable behavior in my mind. So I was careful with them after that, and I wouldn't let the female plant herself between me my dogs. That seemed to be successful and she never went after Eddie again. Poor Eddie wanted to play with her, and almost did headstands to get her attention, but she had determined that he wasn't worthy, and completely ignored him. And she sucked up to Gus. She was the smallest of the 3, and Eddie was the biggest, but little dogs never think about that. She just had a need to know where she stood, and in her mind, Gus was top dog, she was second, and Eddie was number 3. That of course wasn't my order, but they had settled it themselves.
Is Pip a female too? Sometimes that can be a problem in itself. What kind of dogs are Pip and Maddy? Dogs usually mature around 2. I notice that you said that Maddy was in your closed bedroom with you, and Pip was not. And Maddy was on your lap. You could be giving Maddy status over Pip, unconsciously, but dogs pick up on those things. Sometimes dogs just don't get along, they are like us in that way. Some people we just don't like, no rhyme or reason, we just don't like everybody. This problem may or may not be solvable. If they just don't get along, there isn't much you can do. But you can establish a form of status for Pip. Always give Pip treats and food first. Don't let Maddy get between you and Pip. For me, I would let a dog sit beside me, but not get between my knees. Of course, I am talking about bigger dogs, so they were always on the floor. Don't keep Maddy in your room, and leave Pip outside. Use crates if you have to to contain one or both dogs. It isn't a punishment, but it is a way to keep them separate. It seems to me that Maddy is warning Pip away.
I wish you luck, this can be a difficult situation. I had another foster one time before I had Eddie. I didn't have the background at that point. I brought her home, and she and Gus got along. She was bouncing around like she wanted to play with Gus, and Gus responded. That dog went forward and clamped down on Gus's muzzle. Gus just stood there, and I stepped in and yelled at the female to knock if off, and that was all it took. It turned out that the female had lived with another dog at one time, and the other dog attacked her while she was sleeping. She just couldn't get past that. They were fine just being with each other, but they couldn't play together. So when it was play time, I would play with them separately. One would be in the crate and the other one would have playtime. Then we would switch. I don't have any magic words of wisdom for you, every situation is different.
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