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She's is young for such a devastating illness, but it happens. Breeding no matter how carefully done can't eliminate everything. There are never any guarantees, but by using a good breeder a lot of things can be eliminated, and that is certainly better than no careful breeding at all. Health is no more entirely genetic with dogs than it is with humans. Diet, exercise, stress, environment... everything plays a role.
You don't need to give up on the beloved breed of choice for you. You just need to become more savvy about which breeder you chose and which pup from the litter.
With my first Akita I made the mistake of getting him from a bad breeder, and though he was a perfect standard of the breed in looks and temperament, his physical health was a nightmare from the first day I brought him home. Though he lived a long and full life with me, there was a lot of serious health issues on a nearly constant basis that was horribly expensive and emotionally trying for me.
With my second Akita I learned from my mistakes, did the research and found a top notch Akita breeder. Though his health stats were impeccable, and he was as healthy as could be for most of his short life, he got cancer at the age of five. It wasn't the breeding. Who knows what it was. Shit happens. Both of his parents and all his siblings are healthy as can be though his sire passed away from general old age last year. I was just really unlucky.
Third time around and I went through the same breeder that bred and owned his magnificent sire and is one of the top Akita breeders in the world. Yet I know regardless of all this there are no guarantees. There never is. We can only do our best in choosing a respected breeder and the right pup from the litter that is available and hope for the best while being careful of their diet, exercise, vet visits, environment, stress level, etc.
Spend as much time with Abby as you can and think of every shared moment as a gift whatever happens. If or when it comes to the end of the road for Abby please make the hard but right decision to end her suffering peacefully and so that you can be with her for her final journey... the last act of love you could ever give her.
If or when you feel ready for another dog, don't discount your beloved breed of choice. There are excellent breeders out there who breed for health as one of the most important qualities of their breeding program. Do the research and find the right one - they are out there. If you like, I can give you some hints I learned in separating the wheat from the chaff of breeders, the right things to look for, the right questions to ask, and the right answers they should be giving, etc. to help you find a respected breeder of Cavalier King Charles Spaniels. I don't know much about the breed, but I do know how to find the good breeders in all the deadwood since dog breeding is universal in what constitutes good, bad or indifferent breeding.
Now isn't the time to decide anyway. At the moment you are undoubtedly devastated, frightened and upset concerning Abby. Deal with that first and put the thoughts of what to do about another dog on the back burner for now. I know how you feel about about being upset and angry with the breeder. Been there myself many many times. Sometimes I still get angry about the bad breeding of my first Akita, but he was a wonderful dog, I loved him, and I wouldn't have given him up for anything even though his health problems cost me a fortune I didn't have and were so emotionally hurtful to me (he never seemed to give a fig about his own health issues). I still sometimes get angry at myself for my own ignorance at the time, but for the most part I've dealt with that by reminding myself that had it not been for that ignorance I would never have found him to share my life and love... just as you wouldn't have had that sharing of life and love with Abby if not for the perceived mistake of using that breeder.
Sending you hugs and good vibes for both you and your dear Abby.
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