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There is both more and less to it than that though. As you most likely know I am primarily a Clark supporter, so I am obviously answering from that perspective. On the inter personal level some things were said in anger that shouldn't have been, which understandably led to people being upset. Distrust in some cases is so high that some are unwilling to grant any benefit of the doubt about the real intentions of those who make or made angry statements about others. That is part of it.
I won't get more specific because I think this part of "the problem" is foolish or tragic, depending on how you look at it. I'm not saying people are not accountable for their actions and statements. I am saying that there is a world out there with a bigger picture than one focused on the actions and egos of some candidate supporters who post on the internet. Sometimes there's an interpersonal flare up. There is always a story behind it but those stories can end up crowding out what we are all here for in the first place. Personally I have been trying harder of late to steer online discussions away from personalities and personal attacks and back onto issues.
Beyond that I am not sure. I know some Dean supporters have expressed a suspicion that many of the Clark supporters who are backing Dean for DNC Chair are just doing so because they hope that way Dean will be out of the 2008 Presidential picture. I know a few Clarkies either feel or once felt that way, which is part of how that suspician arose, but that is not my sense at all of why most Clarkies are backing Dean for DNC Chair, which I personally am doing also. We think the Democratic Party needs Dean and we trust him to do a good job. Anyway some Clark supporters took offense at the suspicion that we have a hidden agenda, thinking that our sincerity has been called into question which made some question, why am I even doing this if I only get flak back from Deanies for backing Dean? That led to some hard feelings. Actually only a few Dean supporters have questioned the sincerity of Clarkies motivations in backing Dean, but you probably have seen that it doesn't take many to stir the pot form either side.
Also there really has been an upsurge in people, Dean supporters or otherwise, posting slams against Clark over the last week, beyond just saying they won't support him for President, calling Clark a Republican yet again, or grouping him with Zell Miller for example. A few proclaimed Dean supporters have taken part in this which, from "our side", helped poison the climate which contributed to some things being said in anger against some Deanies etc. I am not defending the latter, just providing back ground. Very few Dean supporters said anything to counter those anti Clark statements however, which bothered some Clarkies since many of us have been posting positive things about Dean lately.
There also has been an upsurge recently in people commenting on how DU polls are not valid because Clark supporters who are not really DUers swarm over to DU to distort them. A few polls were running recently with Clark ahead which triggered those posts. There are real questions that can be discussed regarding this of course, but many Clark supporters who have been active at DU for a long time, one or two years or more, felt like we were being dismissed as only coming here to inflate Clark's numbers in polls. Again, I am talking about emotional realities, not necessarily objective ones.
I have no doubt that one or more Dean supporters can come up with things that some Clark supporters did or did not do that was upsetting to them also. I am sure that is equally true, but usually we all notice the blows aimed at ourselves more than the blows aimed at others. It's just human nature I think. I know that "our" defensive reaction to some of the above stuff contributed to some Clark supporters, myself included, making many posts over several threads, which made it seem like we were trying to dominate discusson at DU with Clark at a time when serious discussion about Dean's actual run for DNC Chair is called for.
These tense flare ups seem to happen in waves and then they die down. I hope that the waves will start coming less frequently and the flare ups will increasingly become more minor, since I believe there is so much that we really agree on.
Please understand that I hesitated to say any of this at all in this forum. I do not mean to fix any blame on any problems on Dean's supporters. Perhaps most of the blame could be put on Clark supporters. I am just trying to give you feedback to your question from the vantage point of a sympathetic to Dean Clark supporter. I know I do not see all potential sides to this equally well. I would rather not fix any blame at all and instead concentrate on getting beyond this rough patch to areas where we should be able to cooperate.
Then again it just might be the Full Moon, lol
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