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Dover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-23-05 02:20 PM
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Risky Business
A friend recently announced that she had met a man through the online dating system called E-Harmony, which is one of many such cyber-dating sites. I've met him and like him very much and think there is a very real possibility that they'll marry.
But I also felt uneasy about the process by which this particular dating system works, because it uses extensive personality profiling (she said it took her a couple of hours to fill out the questionaire). My uneasiness did not stem from the use of such data in finding a good match, but with the knowledge that this data that is being provided by the lovelorn is so thorough and so easily surrendered to an unknown entity...in this case E-Harmony.

Now before you accuse me of tinfoiling or paranoia, hear me out.
First of all, we all know that Big Brother is a reality that is only gaining momentum in this country...particularly under Bushco.
People like Bolton, who are so brazen in their use of private information to turn it against another,is just par for the course with this control-crazed group. And as we know, credit card companies have been accumulating personal buying habits for decades for use in our 'protection'. I have been called and quized by my credit card company when I once strayed too far from my personal buying habits, and wouldn't let me go until they had a fuller understanding about WHY I made the type of purchases I did...which did not, so far, fit my profile. That was an eye-opener! On the one hand, this type of security might save me a fortune in fraudulent charges one day. On the other hand this collected data might become part of a larger databank in order to profile consumerism...or worse, could conceivably be used to determine my political leanings or other info, such as is already happening under the Patriot Act. They want to even know what we READ, as libraries, too, have become information collection systems.

And most recently Bushco's plan for collecting the results of mental health testing on children in schools, just validated my fears that they want inside our heads and those of our children.
New Freedom Initiative - http:www.whitehouse.gov/infocus/newfreedom/toc-2004.html)
http://www.sierratimes.com/05/05/16/24_209_102_203_25370.htm
http://www.antidepressantsfacts.com/2004-06-19-Bush-screen-US-mental-illness.htm

When I saw this article on the 'evangelical' roots of E-Harmony owner Neil Clark Warren, the hair stood up on the back of my neck. http://www.theledger.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20050528/NEWS/505280315/1021

On this online "dating" site, one provides one's real name and gives the most thorough personality test I've ever seen. What easier way to collect profiles is there than that? People are, of course, wanting to answer sincerely so as to find their truest match.

So a cautionary note to my fellow freedom lovers and lovelorn...

Think twice before surrendering your personal information.

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tanyev Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-23-05 10:05 PM
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1. Now you know the mental health testing is simply
another realization of the Bush administration's overwhelming care and concern for the physical and mental health and well-being of all Americans.

Yeah, it's really suspicious.
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Dover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-23-05 10:33 PM
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2. Lol! Well, perhaps Bush should demonstrate the merits of these tests
by taking them himself, with results given to a panel of independently chosen doctors to determine his own capacity to function sanely. Heck, lets test ALL the neocons. Surely they would be pleased to give the public confidence in this program by su7bmitting to these tests and providing this information as they would have others do.
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-28-05 05:31 PM
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3. I think you are right to be wary about surrendering
personal information. Maybe there should be a clause in the contract that all this information is confidential and should be destroyed once the objective is met. I think anyway a lawyer should be consulted.

I often wondered with all the blood and other specimens we hand over to hospitals and doctors, if a DNA bank could be created for ethnic profiling by the wrong people in government.
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-29-05 02:45 PM
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4. Kick
:kick:
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Desertrose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-29-05 02:53 PM
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5. Yikes...scary business too
I had just heard of or seen an add for eHarmony and thought I'd take a look....and now...well...NEVERMIND.

There is a nice site for spiritually focused singles...

www.spiritualsingles.com

Geez, thanks for the heads up Dover!!!!!!
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