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Whether through your religion or cult, or through deep ignorance regarding medicine, there is this underlying fear of medical treatment...not just on this board, but in real life as well.
As a nurse, I have *SO* many patients that just will. not. take. life-saving medication because of these half-baked notions that are not based in reality, or scientific fact, or logic. Hell, the medicine doesn't even have to be life-saving, it could be life-improving, or symptom-relieving.
I get it a lot with pain medicine. I swear, people think that they will become Oxycondin addicts if they take Oxy for post-surgical pain. Because of hospital cut-backs and funding and lack of staffing and lack of beds and sicker patients and increasing patient loads, I hardly have the time to spend doing basic health education for my patients, much less a 20+ minute discussion on why Oxy is best for post-surgical pain, and that the pain meds will not be needed permanently, and that we're using other pain control methods in addition to narcotics, that they won't be addicts, that they won't be thrown in jail, etc, for taking 10mg of Oxycontin for their 10 out of 10 pain.
I have found that the people who seem so afraid of medical treatments, and medicine, and pills, and doctors, and hospitals seem to have this fear that using medical treatments is showing a sign of weakness...like, if I were a better person I wouldn't need to use medicine to control my problem, or to solve my problem, or to cure my problem. It is like it's the far-reaching result of feelings of inadequacy.
I had a guy the other night that was in a MVC (motor vehicle crash) and had massive internal bleeding. His abdomen had to be opened and cleaned out because his bowel got perforated and stool spilled into his abd cavity. He had a scar from his sternum to his pubic hair, and because of the build up of fluid part of the wound had to stay open to relieve pressure, and that open part of the wound had to have thrice-daily sterile wound care where we were removing old packing and inserting new packing.
He had other injuries as well, and it was very easy for me to tell that he was in excrutiating pain. Not only did he tell me he was in the worst pain of his life, but his BP was through the roof, heart rate was through the roof, he was sweaty and clammy.
And yet he continued to refuse all medications related to pain control. Not morphine, not dilaudid, not oxy, not vicodin, not percocet, not tylenol, not ibuprofin. NOTHING.
I can't understand it, and of course, I can't force him to take pain medications.
However, I tried my best to educate him that pain was not allowing him to increase his mobility like he needed to...he'd been in the hospital for 3 weeks and hadn't gotten out of bed except for 2 times which sent the pain through the ROOF and nearly made him pass out.
So now he's developing pneumonia because he can't sit up because it's too painful, can't cough and deep breathe because it's too painful, can't roll off his back (and therefore is at very high risk for developing pressure ulcers) because of the pain.
Because he's not moving around, getting up, getting those muscles working and the blood flowing, he's at a very high risk for blood clots in his legs that can be quite fatal. The pneumonia is being treated with antibiotics, but if he's not up and moving around it will just come back.
But he doesn't want pain meds because they're "dangerous" (his words), yet the "dangerous" things that are happening to him are a direct result of his refusal to take medications that are not 1/1000'th as dangerous as the pneumonia and blood clots and pressure ulcers he's in the process of developing.
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The John Travolta story is something I've stayed away from. I know that Scientologists (as well as many other religions) feel that mental illness is a sign of spiritual weakness. I know that they do not believe in psychotropic medications because of their supposed numbing effect on the soul.
However, it sounds like Travolta's kid was at least, for a time, on an anti-seizure medication. Whether that was stopped abruptly (big no-no) or not is not known. Whether he was on other medications prior or after is not known.
I will not venture further into the discussion of that dead child any more than to say that not only is the individual apprehension towards medicine disturbing, but the systemic religion-based apprehension towards medication and treatment is even more disturbing to me.
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Illness, especially chronic and / or terminal illness, is tremendously hard on a family and the person who is ill, especially so if the person who is ill is a child.
But to further add to the pain by suggesting, or stating outright, that illness (esp. mental illness and all of the shades of gray that term seems to cover) is a disorder of the soul, or of the belief system, is beyond cruel. It suggests that a better person would not have that illness, that someone who prayed more or better would not be ill. That someone whose soul was more pure would not be ill.
Of course, there is no quantifying that suggestion. How does one pray "better", and is there a definite outcome of "better prayer" vs. "mediocre prayer" vs. No prayer at all?
And that's what gets me about these tens of billions of discussions on this board about living better through mental/soul/religious manipulation.
Since there is no quantifying what a basic prayer is, and therefore no way to quantify what a better prayer is, there is no way to definitely say that people who are not ill are praying better, or meditating better, or mentating better, since there is no way to quantify the actions to begin with, and no way to gauge their outcome.
Does that make sense?
With medications and therapies, we can say that people who exercise X minutes a day (measurable) for X days a week (measurable) have -X risk of disease (quantifiable).
But you cannot measure prayer, or thoughts, or goodness of soul. Because you cannot measure it, you cannot say that doing more of an unmeasurable act is better, and doing less is worse.
And anyone who says "Well, I prayed for my cancer to go away and it did, so prayer works" is just...I don't know. Maybe prayer did work for them, but to equate "my prayer worked, so I am better. You prayed and are racked with cancer so 1) you did not pray right 2) your prayers were wrong 3) you prayed to teh wrong god so you are deserving of cancer" is asinine.
That you would not be sick if your soul weren't sick. And since you are sick, then you have a sick soul and your sickness is up to you and you are to blame for it and any worsening of your sickness or injury.
That just doesn't jive with me at all, and it's depressing that so many people really believe this to be true
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