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Our kids attended public school during my divorce from my first husband when I had to work full time. Back then I was too inexperienced to know that homeschooling and full time employment CAN work in some circumstances. Once I remarried we (me and my second husband) pulled the kids back out of school and they've been out ever since.
Re: your anxiety--that's so normal. But as my daughter approaches 18 and my son turns 15 I'm finding there just isn't anything to be anxious about. Now, at key ages (entry to jr high and high school for example), we did ask our kids if they wanted to return to public school. They continually declined. Fortunately, for all of us, both were swimmers and were able to enjoy a team sport outside of the high school experience (which was something we felt was important). If they had preferred some other sport, that might have been tough.
To hear my teens tell it, they are the envy of their public school friends. It's the public school kids they know who feel like they're missing out on something rather than my kids. I would imagine that very much depends on the individual though, honestly.
In the local homeschooling group we belonged to, we met kids from all types of public school vs. homeschool situations. It was really rather fluid for some families and one family in particular had one girl graduate from homeschool and enter college early, while her younger sister has gone back and forth from public to homeschool multiple times.
Sorry to ramble on. Hope there was an answer in there somewhere. Feel free to ask anything.
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