http://tinyurl.com/3j94tyLessons from an atheist: Deep into the life of Christ
Del Fra, Lou
Issue date: 9/11/08 Section: Viewpoint
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A few years ago at a Marriage Prep retreat at Notre Dame for young alumni, I was responsible for meeting with all the inter-faith couples. I knew well that these relationships, however loving, often presented unique challenges for the couple. But even I was caught a little off-guard when, before the retreat, the Director of the Marriage Retreats approached me and said, "This woman from Notre Dame is a practicing Catholic. And the man she is marrying is an atheist." Courageously, I tried to get out of it, arguing that having no faith can't possibly count as an inter-faith couple! But they didn't buy it.
So, with a bit of apprehension, I decided to take a walk with this young man - break the ice in a casual way, try to figure out what he thinks about things that matter deeply to his bride-to-be, like Christianity. So, we're walking around St. Mary's Lake, and to my surprise, we quickly hit it off. This guy was great, one head, no weapons. Even more, our conversation revealed him as a great lover of humanity. He believed in respecting every human being, tried to treat others fairly and was profoundly ethical. So finally, about a half-hour into the conversation, I asked him, "So, what do you think about Jesus?"
And without missing a beat, he shoots back an amazing reply, which was more or less: "I think Jesus was a profound teacher. He gave the world an incredible system of morals. And the thing I respect about him the most is that he lived by what he taught - even when it cost him his life. For me, he's one of the great moral examples we have of what it means to live life with total integrity and to be fully human."
And as he's answering, I'm thinking, "Darn, that's pretty good!" And then I got nervous. I felt sure he was going to ask me, "So what do you think about Jesus?" And in the moment, I wasn't sure I could come up with anything more!
Now, fortunately, he didn't ask, but the question lurked in the back of my mind for the rest of our walk. When I went to bed that night, I was still thinking about our conversation, and the question really started to hit home: "What more do I have to say about who Jesus is?" Call it a matter of pride, but I really want to be able to say more about Jesus than an atheist can!
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Page 2 is all Jesus and scripture "talk" - I zoned out.
I have so many issues with this, where to begin? But, atheist outreach does help, my friends!
-Cindy in Fort Lauderdale