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I'm a left of center Democrat and a non-practicing Unitarian. Kind of strange, but it works. One thing that I think has helped us remain good friends is that she lives about 2 1/2 hours away, and even though we e-mail each other daily, we only see each other a couple of times a year. Also, we do have a lot of other things in common besides politics and religion.
When we do see each other (or e-mail each other) we never really talk politics. Not directly at least. Sometimes she'll say something about the high cost of insurance (she and her husband are self-employed) and I'll make some snarky comment like "yeah, somebody should do something about that, shouldn't they." Okay, that's terribly immature of me I know. Also, she treats FOX "News" like the gossip, and that drives me crazy.
For almost three months after the election, it was very difficult for me to communicate with her at all. I was terribly depressed for one thing - I don't know if she knew why or not, but since my depression began on Nov. 3 I thought maybe she could figure it out.
I guess we became close friends at all because 20 years ago, my political leaning were different. (When I was young and dumb, I was young and dumb.) I changed - she didn't'. Sometimes I really want to have a serious political conversation with her because it's so important to me, but I don't think it would turn out well. She's not changing her mind, and neither am I.
I also have a lot of Republican, fundie relatives. Having a sense of humor helps to ease the pain.
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