escape the visions.
I haven't found EWTN to be as right wing as I'd feared. It is traditional Catholic but traditional Catholic that accepts Vatican II. Mother Angelica now only appears live leading the Rosary, having had a stroke a few years ago and having just turned 82 a couple of weeks ago, and I've only seen a couple of reruns of the old "Mother Angelica Live" shows, which were good.
I read her book "Answers, Not Promises" many years ago and I liked it; she has a lot of common sense. Since I converted in my forties, my daughter was not raised Catholic and is not Catholic, but she also liked the book. Both of us were skeptical about the book before reading it. I can't remember what my daughter found especially helpful, probably some of the advice about marriage, but will never forget the section on abortion and miscarriage myself.
Mother Angelica counsels women who have aborted or miscarried that they can be consoled to know that their child did not cease to exist, but that the first thing their child ever saw was the face of God, the first thing the child ever heard was the voice of God. She advises that we name our children who died before birth and, knowing they are in Heaven, ask them to pray for us. I lost a baby a dozen years or more before I read Mother Angelica's book and it was the best advice I ever got. Most people don't understand how much grief a woman can feel over a lost child; you are told things like "Isn't it lucky you lost it so early?" or "Well, it's not like losing a real child." (No, it's not lucky at all! Yes, it is a real child. Sure, anyone knows in their head that it must be worse to have a six month-old baby die, or a sex year-old, etc. But that does not mean it doesn't hurt to lose a child before or at birth. You've already imagined that child growing up so in a sense you have lost a grown up child.)
Needless to say, I have repeated Mother's advice often to others who have lost babies. Invariably, women, and sometimes men, who have lost a baby, cry when they hear that they can be consoled to know that the first thing their child ever saw was the face of God.
I really liked it that, although Mother Angelica is clear about saying abortion is a sin, she is equally clear about a woman needing to forgive herself, to get absolution if she's Catholic, and to make peace with what happened, by naming the child and asking him or her to pray for you. She talks a lot about getting rid of guilt, addresses the issues of suffering, forgiving, lust, fear of death, lots more.
Try this link and you should get to the first page of the book and be able to read 3 or 4 pages that are on-line
http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/0898706068/ref=sib_dp_pt/104-8364739-7215967#reader-page