Sites on Net helped me recover..Also I realize I and also You are not alone in this.
The term "coercive persuasion" is used in the DSM-IV to describe an established technique also called mind control.Things ARE beginning to change in the psych community on this . Decent people are catching up to what spiritually abusive perpretrators are doing to people.
This site is great help to me
http://www.sosa.org/ This site is good stuff too
http://surrealist.org/writing/handbook2.htmlI found this site very helpful if your problem was with a christian flavored cult..
http://www.exchristian.net/And this book is helpful for christian flavored cults Twisted scriptures.. here is the site
of the author..
http://www.geocities.com/Athens/Delphi/6312/index.htmlthis is a page with book exerpts
http://www.geocities.com/Athens/Delphi/6312/tbook.htmlHere are a few other sites
http://www.rickross.com/warningsigns.htmlA huge site with tons of links
http://earthops.org/cult/http://www.factnet.org/Healing.htmlI don't know the situation you were in but here is a link to spiritual abuse recovery for sexual abuse by clergy.
http://www.darkness2light.org/GetHelp/support_adult_survivor.aspAnd humor can help too
http://www.freeminds.org/psych/humor.htmhttp://www.heathenhandbook.com/humor/humorlinks.htmhttp://www.thedoormagazine.com/about_the_door.html