He is a sweetheart,Jon, calm, gentle,affectionate,has really beautiful eyes,(ironically the same color as mine are) He is a freak,loves metal/industrial music,he is a tattooist,a piercer,has a beautiful voice(trained at peabody) Can toast a guitar,can draw his butt off,and has blue hair too.(my hawk is blue currently)
Here's the unusual part.. He is out and gay,and he knows I am a transgender Female to Male, but does not care that I am only partway there,and might never get a phalloplasty.He just asked me out two weeks ago.He has been a joy to be with.He has an adorable smirk .And he loves cats,and "gets" the whole panther thing, too!!
We both went to pride yesterday,and alot of people there asked to take pictures of us.We got so many compliments.We were there with some friends goofing off, playing rate the twinks, listening to the bands, eating and laughing,sitting together being close. He wore the rainbow lion shirt I made for him.
First time I met him was at a peer support called SPIN.We started by talking about our tattoos and art/music. He goes to my PRP.So we became even better friends there. Than one day at SPIN, totally outta the blue he said that he wanted to go out with me. My brain fizzled into a knot, I thought I misheard him ,so I asked him to go meet me at the back room after the group where I can hear him over the din.. Once there I asked him if he meant what he said during the group,he said yes,And I picked up my jaw from the floor.
When the pictures of us from pride show up I'll post 'em..
meanwhile, here he is before he had blue hair, playing with my cat,Sparkle,the one in my avatar.