I've been a loner for 35 years now? Well,

[david13]

it has a few ups and downs, right now I'm way in the down area, as I just turned 60 and have been out of work more or less for 4 years. A few jobs here and there.
But, it's not always easy. I can see why married/partner couples live longer. Mostly, I think they want to, for each other? I guess, but it worked for me up til this year, more or less. It's the difficulties of old age that are getting to me.
I don't know where to start.
dc

[silverweb]

1. I hear you.

Being out of work is probably a greater contributor to your depressive feelings than age, as long as your health is reasonably good.

And Happy Birthday! I'm also 60 (61 shortly) and have found that some of my life preferences have definitely shifted. I've become more of a loner and love it. Family and job never gave me much option before, but now I do have the choice and am indulging it fully.

Maybe in your case, it's time to become somewhat less of a loner, and start seeking out activities where you'll meet more people?