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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:29 AM
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Hi.
I'm one of those people who was a loner in school. I don't mind doing things alone...going to movies alone, stuff like that.

Terry
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knowbody0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:39 AM
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1. hey terry
i know people who freak out when they are alone. they call me. they are stressed out. im always glad when they leave
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Spider Jerusalem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-18-05 03:27 AM
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10. Those people are called "extroverts"...
and they are excruciating except in small doses.

Personally, I need about 2 or 3 hours alone for every hour spent socialising, just to decompress. And some extroverts I can't take being around for very long at all...they suck the life out of me. Whoever came up with the idea of the "emotional vampire" was, I'm sure, an introvert surrounded by extroverts.
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Mist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:53 AM
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2. Another loner here
I just think of myself as someone who needs a lot of "alone time." I got used to doing a lot alone (movies, museums) long ago because I hate waiting for someone else to be "in the mood." I think I get more out of things sometimes going alone.
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-13-04 02:33 PM
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Edited on Mon Dec-13-04 02:34 PM by terrya
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bemildred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-13-04 02:45 PM
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4. Hi Terry.
Welcome to the loner's group.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-14-04 02:37 AM
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5. I go to the movies alone all the time
hate having to coordinate, like just jumping up and seeing what I WANT WHEN I WANT
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AgadorSparticus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-09-05 08:18 PM
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7. i know exactly what you mean. doing things alone allows me to
do very spontaneous things. i love to do unexpected things. it is a nice slice of freedom.
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Gryffindor_Bookworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-19-04 07:03 PM
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6. Terry!
:hi: How's it going? Haven't seen you in a while.

I like to go to the movies alone, and I like to eat out alone. I get stares sometimes, because people seem to think it's a cardinal sin or a crime or something, but I don't care. It's fun. I like my own company. :)

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JitterbugPerfume Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-17-05 12:59 PM
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8. I live alone
in a very secluded place

after a bad marriage and a large family I LOVE my alone time
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-18-05 12:51 AM
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good for you jitterbug
I've always said, if you can't stand your own company why would other people want you around?
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-18-05 12:51 AM
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9. good for you jitterbug
I've always said, if you can't stand your own company why would other people want you around?
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kslib Donating Member (485 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 04:26 PM
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11. hi terry!
I like doing stuff alone as well. Good to find other like me!
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