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melnjones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-08-05 09:18 PM
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AngryOldDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-09-05 06:16 PM
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1. I am so tired of fighting this fight
I have done more than my fair share of clicking Alert.

I've come to the sad conclusion that anything concerning religion is fair game here -- somehow it does not get the same tolerant and fair discussion as most other issues -- it's the cyberspace punching bag and one of the most off-putting aspects of DU. These people who mock my faith are my political allies?

I threw up the white flag on this in a discussion just now on GD. There comes a time when you just have to walk away. I have come to that time.


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boomboom Donating Member (483 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-09-05 10:12 PM
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2. I understand what you mean
It is tiring being "too liberal" to be a Christian. Too Christian to be a democrat. It makes little sense to me. Maybe I'm kind of a AngryOldDem also.
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AngryOldDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-10-05 09:05 AM
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3. Why I am tired of fighting
Edited on Mon Jan-10-05 09:21 AM by AngryOldDem
For months, I have been trying to get the point across that all that is really involved here is a matter of simple respect. You may not agree with everything I believe in, and vice versa. We can agree to disagree, but that gives neither of us the right to mock, belittle, or otherwise downgrade the honestly held religious beliefs of another. And no, I am NOT talking about the Fred Phelpses and Pat Robertsons of the world who make a criminal mockery of religion themselves. I am talking about Catholics who believe in the Virgin Birth, or Protestants who believe that ways to get through times of crisis is to pray and put things in God's hands. I am talking about people like me, who have found inspiration and courage in the messages of social justice and action that is at the core of my faith, which have brought me closer to where I need to be spiritually.

The standard answer back to me is that religion, like everything else, is subject to criticism. Yes, indeed. But there is a difference between criticism and insult, and too few on the other boards just don’t seem to get it. If they don’t agree with it, they hold it in contempt, period; as far as I’m concerned, they are also holding me in contempt. The second most-“popular” rebuttal is that since Christianity is one of the largest religious denominations in the U.S., it cannot claim “persecution.” When my faith is attacked, just what is that called? Do I not have a right and responsibility to defend it? Do I not have the right to be offended when I read a suggestion in one post from a few weeks back that said all Christians should be “bound and gagged” in their pews? (One of many posts I flagged to the mods.) Or that the Pope is a doddering old idiot (and that is one of the more charitable descriptions you’ll read of him) who has no right to voice an opinion on world matters, but then is accused of not doing enough to help world matters? You feel backed into a corner, and if that is not a small sign of “persecution,” then tell me what is.

This kind of rhetoric would not be tolerated here one SECOND if it is directed to any other societal group – and rightfully so. Isn’t that another sign of being singled out? If anyone who shows up to make counterpoints is hounded into silence, isn’t that another sign?

What irks me more is that a lot of these threads do not begin innocently, despite protestations to the contrary (there is an exchange between Skinner and a frequent religion-basher in ATA on this very subject, as a matter of fact). They are put up with an agenda, and then it’s off to the races. While it’s a difficult line to draw concerning censorship, it’s usually clear where these threads are headed after the first 25 or so posts – especially if you see the usual suspects showing up. If there is nothing productive going on, why waste your bandwidth? Shut it down. I think the mods are doing that more quickly these days, but still a lot of uncalled for and downright hurtful things are said before that happens.

Sorry for the rant, but this troubles me on more than one front. If the Democratic Party wants to see why moderates are leaving it, and why it cannot appeal to moderates outside the party who also consider themselves politically homeless, DU is a good place to start. This extremism is toxic, and will ultimately cost the party more than some Congressional seats and the presidency. Just as the Right needs to come closer to the center, so do we. Basic respect and tolerance would be a good place to start.

ON EDIT: Clarify wording.
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melnjones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-10-05 12:29 PM
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4. I can relate to how you feel...
I often feel I don't fit in anywhere. I'm too liberal to be in Christian circles, and too Christian to be in Democratic circles. It's a lonely place to be. Even more difficult for me is the fact that, in reality, my theological beliefs are somewhat close to those of fundamentalist evangelical Christians, with three main differences- I believe strongly in separation of church and state, I believe that it is in no way my place to decide who goes to hell, and I fully accept that, because I am human, my interpretation of the Bible still might be wrong, and therefore I am open to dialog with others who believe differently than I do. (I have other differences as well, but that's the main part.) I'm pretty sure that issues of sin and salvation are far too complex for any human being to fully understand. I wish people would understand that you can disagree with or even be offended by another's religious beliefs but still respect their right to believe them. Anywho, I am thankful that DU does (eventually) lock the flamefests against Christians. I think it sends an important message of basic respect, even if some people haven't figured it out yet. And I'm thankful for a place like this group:-)
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pelagius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-10-05 02:24 PM
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5. Your beliefs (and your dilemma) are the same as mine
"I'm too liberal to be in Christian circles, and too Christian to be in Democratic circles." Ouch. Here, too.

This group will perhaps help us get around that conundrum. But you are definitely not alone.
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-11-05 06:58 PM
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13. I feel the same way, and someone recommended this forum to me.
I was told by a fellow DUer that she really didn't think it was possible for someone to be as liberal as I "claim" to be and still be a Christian, which I also "claim" to be. Her implication was clear: that I was lying about either my liberalness or my Christian beliefs. She went as far as to say that because someone she knew in real life had turned on her, everything *I* had to say was suspect.

That was the first time I ever put anyone on ignore.
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melnjones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-13-05 09:33 PM
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14. The ignore button can be a beautiful tool:-) nt
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pelagius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-10-05 02:28 PM
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6. I'm walking away, too.
It's a no-win. If you rise to a defense of Christian belief and practice, then you're "shoving it down people's throat".

Christianity, as the primary political and cultural institution of the West for roughly 1500 years, has a lot to answer for, but that's not what these threads are about. They're pure flamebait.
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AngryOldDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-10-05 06:23 PM
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8. Okay...here's what's really set me off today
There is a discussion in LBN concerning Pio Laghi expressing his disappointment that Bush has not lived up to his promises about the war that he made when he spoke to the Pope awhile back. Naturally, the Vatican used strong, diplomatic language that condemned the war prior to it starting back in March of 2002. But, Bush is/was under no compunction to follow advice offered by any world leader, the Pope included.

So today people are wondering why the Vatican did not come out and tell Bush not to invade Iraq. These are the same people who also decry any kind of Church involvement in the political system.

And what's more, they seem to be totally blind to the double standard.

I am getting very late for a meeting (I'm writing as stuff is being printed out) so I can't go get the link. But it's on LBN, and it's a crazymaker.

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pelagius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-10-05 06:27 PM
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10. I read that one, too...
...and said, "What?! They're blaming the Catholic Church for the war in Iraq now!?"

I am not big 'C' Catholic, but the ignorance of the Church and diplomacy in general in that topic is appalling. Bigotry is exactly the right charge.
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-10-05 11:44 PM
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11. Not so much flamebait as people working out their personal issues
In my offline life, I've found that chip-on-the-shoulder atheists are, say, people who were molested by clergy or who had a loved one condemned to hell by an insensitive preacher or who suffered harsh discipline from a religiously fanatical parent or who had their deepest impulses (sexual orientation, feminism, etc.) stifled by a harsh, unloving type of religion.

They're like the Cambodian refugee who heckled us nuclear freeze marchers back in the 1980s with, "You going to be Communist slaves like Cambodians!"
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Princess Turandot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-11-05 02:18 AM
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12. I agree with you, however..
I don't think that most of the DU'er's 'stories' are anywhere near as extreme as you give them credit for. Once in awhile, a poster gives off a vibe that something bad happened to them, but that's not how I read most of these posts. I think that many of these posters are people who had/have a bad relationship with someone in their life, probably their parents, and religion got into the mix.
If they still have a relationship with the person who upset them, it's easier to blast out at religion (or a host of other things) than their family member, or they are blasting abt religion to get back at the other person in some indirect way.

I think the same thing abt the anesthesiologist who started the 'under God' debate in the pledge. I don't think his sole motive was to protect the Bill of Rights; I think he might have been in a pi$$ing contest with his ex-wife over something that religion played into and this was one way he chose to strike back at her.
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Cuban_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-10-05 03:12 PM
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7. Feel free to PM me any time, guys.
I'll bring up your concerns in the Moderator forum.

:hi:
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AngryOldDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-10-05 06:23 PM
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9. Thanks, CubanLiberal
I'll bet being a mod is one of the more thankless tasks one can take on. I've seen your input on some of these discussions as well.

Thanks again.
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Selwynn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:53 PM
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15. I am exhausted and utterly fed up with this stupid tired old fight.
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