Maybe headed for a seperation, need advice on male friend

[holiday]

my husband and I aren't doing well right now. He has lied about alot of stuff and I can't trust him nor am I attracted to him now.

The problem is I have a male friend who knows all this. He called me yesterday and wants to go to lunch one day. At first I thought we were just friends. But he has said a few things that makes me think he is sexually attracted to me. I know he admires my butt, and has told me if I dump my husband call him (but he said in a joking way) I'm worried that he may be trying to "get" me or just try to get me in bed since he is attracted to me and knows my problems. On the other hand, it could not be the case and he truly is a good friend. He does try to help me see dh's side if I'm wrong but will also say if dh is wrong. It's not like he is instigating things between us. I'm just afraid he may be trying to use me. How do I know for sure?

[mrgorth]

1. You can't.

But we're all dogs. Remember that. We are ALWAYS thinking of sex.

[holiday]

2. well

You were right he came onto me..lol

[mrgorth]

3. What happened if you don't...

or even if you do mind my asking?

[Room101]

4. "If I dump my husband call him"

(but he said in a joking way)

As guys we use jokes to get out what we are to shy to say. If he admires your butt, he has pleasured himself to your image many times (guaranteed). As a pig if I sense weakness I go in for the kill(sexually speaking). If I'm a long time true friend I wait until your ready before moving in for the kill.



Welcome to the mind of a man. O8)