So, hub thinks that I'll beg him not to go to Afghanistan?

[jojo54]

He works for the company that makes the 767 jet and Chinook helicopter (don't know if I can say the name here on DU). They need a land service rep in Afghanistan for a 12-15 month tour. He said that he's going to put in for the job if I truely don't love him anymore. WTF?

Gawd, after 32 years of marriage, I'm so sick and tired of this "pay attention to me before I pout; you never do anything right" attitude. Go to f**king Afghanistan for all I care. I don't need a narcissist in my life anymore. I'm getting the hell out of Dodge ASAP!

[mrgorth]

1. Do you

not love him anymore?

[Bucky]

2. Hang in there JoJo

Sounds like you're in a rough spot. But at least you got a plan. ALWAYS have a plan. I hope your road gets you to a good place.

[Coexist]

3. jojo, I don't know if you're even reading this thread anymore

but that sounds like my husband. I no longer love him "like that" although I do care deeply about him, and I think I really just want out. How did things turn out for you?