Can a woman screw her marriage up by being honest about how much her life sucks

[proud patriot]

I'm supposed to be a liberal ... Not taken advantage of right?


LOL
:cry:

[proud patriot]

1. scene

oktoberfest drive home ////

Too much to drink ,, but nothing , not genuine
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I think my marriage is over


I'm miserable

Daily resentment

[elleng]

2. Don't understand.

WHO had too much to drink? and what's 'but nothing, not genuine?'

Daily resentment about what?

[proud patriot]

6. daily resentment of being his mother instead of his partner in life

[blondeatlast]

3. Oh, P, I'm so sorry.

:hug: I know it's been so very rough for you, too.

My STBX will be arriveing 10/10 and we are going to finalize everything. I don't want to, I still love him even though it is stupid. I went on a date last night and it all came back to me how crappy dating was.

Take care, sis--love from Phoenix way coming to you.

[proud patriot]

7. Thanks

you hang in there too

[AwakeAtLast]

4. Remember there are always two involved

You cannot screw up anything all by yourself. Being honest is fine, but I think it has to be coupled with a willingness for both parties to accept their parts of the problems, and also commit to working on them. Don't think about throwing in the towel too soon!

:hug:

[proud patriot]

8. It's been a long time in coming

a few years in fact . We have a child . We will be friends forever .
I just can't be married to him anymore . I'm not property , I'm not a maid , I'm not a lot of things I was having to live everyday .

I'm not quite sure who I am yet but I need to find out .

[proud patriot]

5. Sorry folks I posted this UI

My husband moved out this Monday after I got very honest with him
Friday night. He decided to stop speaking to me and moved out .

[raccoon]

9. Best of luck to you, PP. How are things going now? nt

[uncommon]

10. That's what happened to me, more or less.

I couldn't hide the fact that I was unhappy stuck at home with a small child with no financial security or life of my own.

He would go out and do as he pleased while I was home taking care of our daughter.

3 years in January since we split up and our divorce was just finalized last month. And we still end up fighting at least once a month or so about custody or some other parenting related nightmare.

On top of that, he has a 6 month old baby with his new fiancee and their relationship seems approximately as stable as ours was, so I imagine he will be going through this again in a few years.

Hang in there. :hug: