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Patsy's not on a GD strike, I am. And it's not really a strike, it's just a complete withdrawal.
I have PM'ed a few people today who posted about how they were not going to dance on Jesse Helms' grave today because they saw no point in celebrating the death of an old man who hasn't been functional for years anyway. Of course, their posts to GD did no good, because essentially too many people want to have a party over it.
In essence, by their behavior, they're saying Jesse Helms and Tim Russert were equally evil, and that alone is enough to burn my bacon.
And then you have the anti-faith people, whom I also find extremely annoying. It's not enough for them that they feel comfortable being allowed to believe in nothing and not be persecuted for it; they simply will not be happy until they have ridiculed religion to the point where they have made all believers feel like absolute fools.
So yeah, I'm with you.
There are too many people in GD who know nothing on a topic, or know nothing but their own perspective, or know nothing other than what they read in a book or two, and now think they are experts on the subject. Who believe what they want to believe, whose minds are closed to anything else.
I think part of the reason that finding any sort of perspective about FLDS in GD is useless is simply that FLDS people are "religious," period. Not only that, but they're fundie religious. DU'ers like to preach tolerance, but they're not tolerant at all when it comes to fundie religions.
Me? I have a problem with fundie religions when they won't leave me alone, or when they try to force me to believe what they do. But I can honestly say that I have not suffered any prosetylization attempts from FLDS people, any more than I have from the Amish or the Orthodox Jews.
Do I agree with all their religious beliefs, or their rules for how people (especially women) should live? No. But it's their religion, not mine. No one's forcing me to follow it. It's not like they're the Taliban.
It seems that rather like the Amish and Orthodox Jews, they simply seek the freedom to live separately and follow their religion as they see fit, no matter what anyone else thinks of their clothes, beliefs or customs. As a person who has never lived far from the Amish, it's hard for me to understand why they should be treated any differently. True, the Amish don't practice polygamy, but the role for women in their society is hardly open or liberated. Your choice of what to be when you grow up is either wife and mother or nothing. Then again, your choice of what to be when you grow up as a boy is either farmer or nothing. Well, you could be a storekeeper or a blacksmith or run a restaurant, but that's about it.
For the Orthodox Jewish girl, life is pretty circumscribed too. You're expected to marry as soon as you reach marriageable age, and from then on your job is keeping a kosher house and raising as many children as possible. Period. And you live your life separately from all men other than your own husband.
If you grow up in those religions and that's not enough for you, if you want another life, you have to leave the community, and your religion, behind. But it's not as if others are going to come after you and kill you if you do. They may personally believe you're hell bound, but they're not going to try to send you there themselves.
This FLDS case has caused me to wonder: What would the police in a small community in Ohio or Pennsylvania or Indiana do if, someday, a teenage Amish girl ran into the station, barefoot, cap strings flying, and reported that she was being beaten and sexually abused? Would they call child and family services? Would the state move in and try to take ALL the Amish children in that particular community away? Or even ALL the Amish children in ALL the communities in that state away? And what would be said about that?
Would there be nearly as much outrage collectively against the Amish? Would they be the subject of talk shows? Would there be TV documentaries about their "cult"?
Or is this all about the sex? Is it just that we're outraged at the idea that there's a bunch of guys out there whom we have convinced ourselves are having a lot more sex than most men are, and with a lot of younger women than most men their age are, maybe even girls, and are using religion as their justification?
Because if that's what it is, we need to be honest with ourselves.
But if the sex is taking place with underage girls, we can do something about that. Same thing with child abuse. There are legal remedies applicable on a case-by-case, family-by-family basis. Those legal remedies don't have to include taking everyone's children away.
What kills me is, as is so often the case with DU, the hypocrisy. They can see children snatched out of the arms of FLDS mothers without so much as a by-your-leave, but if they knew a couple with children who was using drugs on occasion--a little pot here, a little hash there--and the state found out about it and used it as an excuse to take the couple's kids away, most of them would be screaming bloody murder. Or if the couple were involved in a divorce, and one of the two had a few drunk driving convictions and thus lost custody of the kids to the other. Outrage! How can they do that! Well, they CAN do that, because if you've driven drunk, a case can be made that you are a potential danger to your children.
Happy 4th of July, Wolfie. I think your ancestor would be proud of you, too. I like to think mine would understand my stance. After all, my grandparents didn't get up some morning and get on a ship and spend weeks crammed like sandines into a stinking hold with other people like themselves, feeling seasick and miserable, just so they could get to yet another country where they would only be treated like refuse and have equal opportunity only if they were wealthy, of the majority ethnic background and followed the majority religion.
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