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I think that happens everywhere to some degree. Here the coaches kids never play outfield, never sit out an inning, bat 3rd or 4th in the lineup mostly (even if they haven't had a hit all season.) I know it's worse in other places probably, but that's pretty much what happens here. At least most of the traveling players are pretty good. It's a team they have to try out for. The main complaint I have is that they focus way too much on winning. I recently heard that one of the traveling parents (who have a son on the local high school team also) approached the coach with some tips and pointers on what they think could be done differently. The coach's response to them was that his philosophy is to play to win at all costs and develop the players 2nd. I personally think that if you develop the players 1st, the winning will come. Sometime I think that these dads are way too involved and living out their dreams through their kids. I wonder how many will be burned out by high school? I think my son is generally treated pretty well by this bunch. Although I don't always agree with the coach, he does value my son's contributions to the team. This coach has been coaching my son for 3 years and has been telling us the potential he thinks our son has (just not as much as his son's of course( ha ha).)
Glad you son is happy "in house." How old is he? Our house league this year had probably one of the most serious coaches I have ever dealt with. He lectured the kids on behavior at the beginning of the season, telling them that he didn't care if they were the best kid on the team, they would play the minimum and sit the rest if they goofed around. He told them that everyone would take a turn in the outfield and everyone would take turns sitting out (unless there was misbehaving going on.) What he failed to mention was that if you were the child of a coach you were excluded from this rule. The funny thing is that these kids are now 11 & 12 years old and not stupid. They know what happens out there. Even though my son had a phenomenal house league season, I am truly glad it's over. :hi:
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