I think I'm about to lose my dad

[WestHoustonDem]

My mom called a couple of hours ago and told me I need to get to him quickly, he was intubated over night. He's been sick all year.

I said it out loud to expedite the plane reservations. "My dad is dying". I've been watching him suffer all year.

My parent's 50th anniversary is in 12 days, this sucks. The Mets might win the World Series. But I don't know if I'll be able to share it with him.

This sucks.

Thanks for listening. DU is my second family.

[livetohike]

1. Dear WestHoustonDem

All my positive thoughts are headed your way for your Dad and family :hug:

I lost my Dad on Nov. 8, 2004. I drove across country alone (with my dogs) to be with him. He loved baseball and we watched the World Series from his hospital room.

I hope you will have time to spend with your Dad. Take care of yourself and check in. :hug:

[RevCheesehead]

2. Blessings to you and your family during this time.

You won't regret a single moment you spend with him. :hug:

[WestHoustonDem]

3. Thanks Livetohike and RevCheesehead

I saw him a little while ago and the end is very near. I'm going to get my mom into bed and go back to the hospital.

[WestHoustonDem]

4. He's gone.

When I got back to the hospital tonight, the ICU wing was empty of personnel. It didn't take long for me to realize why - they were all trying to restart Dad's heart. 10 minutes later, his suffering was over.

The family has a web site - www.sackheritagegroup.com. We'll post a memorium tomorrow.

[RevCheesehead]

5. God Bless you all, WestHoustonDem.

My thoughts and prayers are with you. :hug::hug::hug:

[WestHoustonDem]

6. Thanks Rev

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[livetohike]

7. My sympathy to you and your family WestHoustonDem

:hug: I hope all the good memories you have of your Dad will help ease the sadness.

[havocmom]

8. Strength to you and your family

Peace for all.

Watch baseball. And talk to your dad while doing it.

Love doesn't perish.

[WestHoustonDem]

10. Thanks havocmom

The Mets and Giants both came through for my dad this weekend.

I'm going home tomorrow, satisfied that my mom is ready to be strong on her own.

[flamingyouth]

9. I am so sorry for your loss.

Please accept my condolences. :hug:

[WestHoustonDem]

11. flamingyouth - thank you

:hug:

[roguevalley]

13. bless you. you will be able to move on at some point. it may not seem

like it now but you will. hugs to you and yours, my friend.

[WestHoustonDem]

14. thank you roguevalley

:hug:

[pecwae]

12. I'm sorry for your loss, WHD.

I just discovered this group and read your post. I wish there was something profound I could say to ease your pain.

[WestHoustonDem]

15. just saw this pecwae

It's been 2 months and we've been through 3 birthdays, my folks 50th anniversary and Thanksgiving. A lot of firsts in a little time. It gets easier, but its still overwhelming