First, let me explain that my main research goal in the past six years has been to learn about my paternal grandmother's family, and when I started I had two photographs of her from different eras and a prayer card from her funeral mass. That's it -- no documentation at all -- though I did have some anecdotal information about my grandmother's hometown, ethnicity, family, and career.
But the card had the exact date of death, which proved to be the crucial item in jump-starting my search. I wrote to the appropriate state to request a death certificate, and that opened the floodgates, for there on the document was much of the missing information: her birth date, her birth name (somewhat different from the name we all knew her by), the first and last names of both her parents. The document also confirmed the name of her hometown, so my next step was to shift the focus of my research to that town and county.
All of that came to me thanks to the card from her funeral mass.
So the point of all this is...
1. Get as many actual vital records as you can. This is going to mean sending written requests, likely through snail mail. Privacy laws vary, so be prepared to submit a copy of your identification and some sort of statement that you are a blood relative. One of the most complicated procedures I faced was getting my own father's birth certificate.
Vital records can contain errors (e.g., the wrong age, a misspelled surname), and sometimes information is omitted. But there is absolutely no substitute for them.
You cannot reconstruct your relatives' lives by online work alone.You can look up instructions for requesting vital records and also print out application forms from the Web.
2. Trace your relatives through the Census. Not all years have been made public (I think we're up to 1930), but you can get started with what's there. Be prepared for mistranscriptions, misspellings, inaccuracies, etc.
See if your library allows access to HeritageQuest from your home computer (with library card and password, of course) or from the library itself. You'll be able to look up Census entries, though be warned that you might need to play around with spellings, locate people by identifying the head of the household, and so forth. My Hungarian great-grandfather, who was Istvan (Stephen) in the old country, was Steve in the Census and Stone in the transcription for HeritageQuest. :rofl: You run into problems like that with EllisIsland.org, too.
3. Trace your relatives through the city directories. These are available through local libraries, the Library of Congress research rooms, paid genealogy websites, and sometimes free at county genealogy websites.
4. Use genealogy magazines and books to find tips on untapped resources and what to do when you hit a brick wall. I don't subscribe to Family Tree magazine, but it's been a godsend in terms of getting me through research and providing ideas.
5. Form a relationship with the pertinent local genealogical society. For a fee you can get look-ups. Sometimes they also have research facilities, newsletters, and message boards.
6. Find other researchers and actual relatives on genealogy message boards (surnames, ethnicities, locales, etc.). I've found several cousins that way, and as you might expect, we help flesh out each other's records.
7. Newspapers are your friend. Which newspapers might have recorded family news or events? You can get a treasure trove of information in an obituary. Once you know a death date, find an archive, library, or genealogical society with access to the right newspapers and see if there's an obit to be found. From the obituary of my great-aunt, for instance, learned my great-great-grandmother's maiden name.
8. The genealogy website www.familysearch.org is extremely useful, since it has the Social Security death index and various other resources. It even has family trees (And you never know who else is working on your family tree). But always confirm the information through another source. As with HeritageQuest or EllisIsland.org, there are sometimes errors.
http://www.familysearch.org9. Use state and county genealogy websites through Rootsweb and GenWeb.
http://www.usgenweb.org/http://www.rootsweb.com/I guess the whole point of this is that while the Web is a good servant in the genealogy quest, there's no way around the fact that you are going to need official documents, plus input from other family members and/or researchers. But the simplest things can lead to an official document.
Good luck. I hope you find out everything you wanted to know.