Another Kind of Addict
What exactly is sex addiction, and how are those who suffer from the disorder, like actor David Duchovny, treated?
By Susanna Schrobsdorff | Newsweek Web Exclusive
Sep 2, 2008 | Updated: 3:58 p.m. ET Sep 2, 2008
The term "sex addict" has been used as a punch line on television so often that it's hard to believe that it can actually be a serious addiction, like alcoholism. So when "X Files" star, David Duchovny, announced last week that he was entering rehab for treatment of a sexual addiction, it almost seemed like a fictional plotline for the Showtime series "Californication," on which Duchovny plays a sex-obsessed single dad. But for those affected, the ramifications of a sexual addiction are all too real, often leaving marriages, careers and bank accounts in ruins. For celebrities who are contending with sexual problems, there's often the added humiliation of having their difficulties made public. This summer, the tabloids were filled with lurid stories of out-of-control spending on Internet porn by Peter Cook, husband of model Christie Brinkley. And of course, in Hollywood, tales of actors risking their reputations by picking up street prostitutes are too numerous to mention.
What exactly constitutes a sexual addiction? It's generally described as obsessive sexually related behavior that dominates the addict's life. The compulsive behavior can range from obsessive use of pornography or promiscuity, to use of prostitutes or even sexual violence. Still, the notion that people can be clinically addicted to sex is controversial. Sex addiction, is not recognized by the American Psychological Association as a diagnosable disorder; and when news breaks of yet another philandering celebrity or politician, the public is likely to assume the person is suffering from an extreme case of caddishness rather than a bona fide illness. To learn more about how sexual addictions are treated and diagnosed, NEWSWEEK's Susanna Schrobsdorff spoke to Jill W. Bley, a clinical psychologist and sex therapist in Cincinnati. Excerpts:
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Some people see the sex-addict label as just an excuse for a guy who cheats. What's the difference between someone who needs psychological help and someone who is just a jerk?Some are jerks. But there's a huge difference between someone who's cheating and an addict. A person who has a sexual addiction is engaging in obsessive-compulsive sexual behavior, which causes severe stress to the addicted individual and their families, and over which they do not have control.
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http://www.newsweek.com/id/156768?GT1=43002Sorry to not include more from this, but this issue, the article and the sexist implications make my head hurt. :(