Double standards piss me off
When people read about this they got mad and rightfully so...It pissed me off BIG TIME.
PHOENIX (AP) - Two young men charged with sodomizing 18 boys at a youth camp last year have been offered a plea agreement that may net them little jail time and no record of sexual assault.
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The younger Bennett confessed to police that he and Wheeler sodomized the 11- to 14-year-old boys with broomsticks and flashlights in at least 40 incidents, court documents show.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.ph...But another thread pissed me off too, because of a double standard...
"They made such a big stink about the Duke case why not this one?"
Yes the media needs to make a stink about this Bennett case AND the Duke case BOTH cases need to be heard.
For some people on DU there is a sexist assumption, if a woman gets gang raped by some rich assholes oh another"slut" got raped,it's not news it doesn't matter.
But it DOES matter.
Her life could be ruined and she could be carrying trauma of what happened to her for the rest of her days.
Sadly to some Du'ers she is not important because she's a object,She's an evil woman framing the little rich Jock frat boys who thought being a 'dancer' entitled them to force rape her for jollies. This attitude and double standard infuriates me .
Was she ASKING to be raped? NO !!
Even if she was walking around buck naked that is NOT an invitation for forced sex,people.WAKE UP!!
Likewise were those boys in that camp that Bennett's asshole son was a camp counselor ,were those boys asking to be raped by "breaking the rules"? NO !!! No NO!
_Both_ CASES MATTER!!!The Duke case and this case of pedophilia are equally vile acts.Rape causes trauma to the victim no matter who they are. It harms a woman's mind and life just as bad as it hurts kids mind and life.This is because rape is an abuse of power a violent,violation of a persons own sanctity of their body,by force because the rapist wanted to dominate them.Rape is evil.
No one ,no human being deserves rape. NO ONE DESERVES or ASKS to be traumatized by some asshole on a power trip.
Death is preferable to living with trauma. Some people can recover from trauma they are the strong and fortunate.Not everyone is as strong and fortunate. For the others death would have been more kind than suffering the scars in their body and mind.That is how I feel about my life. I often wish I was not born.I faced pedophilia incest and rape in my life.
It has left scars that hurt,that ruined my life.And so I have no tolerance or excuses for rapists or pedophiles.
_ALL RAPE is WRONG_ and it is the_RAPISTS FAULT_ and it is the RAPIST himself who is to BLAME every time a rape happens. There is no excuse for rape,no rationales,no reasons,no blaming of victims for what a perpetrator does.. It makes no difference WHO gets raped.. the RAPIST is 100%at FAULT if said rapist raped.. It does not matter if the victim is ,a boy, a girl,an adult, a "prostitute",a teen, a spouse,comatose,an iraqi prisoner or a sheep it does not matter!!! Because ALL RAPE IS WRONG period. What kind of double standard SEXIST bullshit is this I see on DU??
Below is taken from a thread entitled
"I don't care about the duke rape case..."
"Go away. Non news news story. 100% bullshit. The missing white girl story but
she is now black and not missing. Let the justice system work. Stop it already!
Sex & money .... hype hype hype "
Regardless of who is victimized male, female or child, the fact they were raped is the REAL problem,that trauma ruins their life forever.It's not about sex,money religion..It's rape and rape is an evil abuse of power..
Rapists are ALWAYS in the position of power in an assault.. The rapist is who chooses to dominate and victimize,all on their own volition.. It is the rapist who use their own bodies as weapons and it is always wrong . In reality every rape is always 100% the FAULT of the rapist them self. The rapist could choose at any moment during an assault to NOT rape someone else,regardless of the excuses society makes about rape or whether said rapist gets away with it or not.
What could society do to make the rapist pause and think rape is not worth it?(This saying SHIT like she deserved it,she wanted it, goldigger, this or that..smug juries and ignorant sexist media looking at what she was wearing,is NOT deterring rapists from rape. It is excusing them. Likewise giving a senators son rapist piece of shit light sentences,and sweet plea deals that too is excusing the rapist and that is NOT a deterrent)
RAPE IS ALWAYS WRONG.No matter whom is raped or how old or young or how they looked what they wore or what "rules they break". Rape is ALWAYS the rapists FAULT and the rapist is to BLAME.
If I had my way, I would make the rape penalty severe.I would make the convicted rapist wear a permanent mark . Maybe a notched ear like the cherokee did to rapists so that EVERYONE who sees their ear KNOWS they raped somebody and the rapist will not be trusted as if he was not a sick asshole by the unaware..I'd give them social death sentence like that because they destroyed someone else's life just because they wanted a power trip..
If they rape again I'd CUT the offending body parts OFF.If they assault again, I'd just KILL them.Rapists are scumbags by choice, they became less than human the day they CHOSE to rape.
I would make the act of rape so costly to the perpetrator's well being and future life that the idea of doing it would amount to suicide.Than maybe rape of little kids,teens,,women and men, prostitutes and spouses would finally Stop. I don't waste my compassion on rapists and pedophiles.In fact I wish they'd all just kill themselves,or some strange virus would start killing rapists pedophiles and sociopaths and wipe all of them off this Earth.
Imagine a world without "predatory" assholes..No more rape pedophilia and sadistic domination that these perpetrators choose to do that ruin so many victims lives.
I hope the boys who were raped by Bennett's pervert son get justice,and the senators son is sentenced to jail for the rest of his miserable life or is given death for his crime against them. I hope the woman ,if it is proven she was raped by the Duke frat boys gets justice too.(considering some of those assholes are out on bail,she might have a case) I hope those gang banger assholes are given jail for the rest of their days or the death penalty. Anything less than that for all these rapist assholes is a tragedy. Too bad our culture excuses rape under "certain circumstances" and minimizes and hides what was done to save the monsters face.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=364&topic_id=1016778&mesg_id=1016778