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CatWoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 09:10 PM Original message |
Let's say I was raped, and 10 years ago I made a similar accusation |
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valerief (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
1. self-delete |
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MadMaddie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 09:13 PM Response to Original message |
2. That's a slippery slope isn't it...The first two |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 09:13 PM Response to Original message |
3. A past accusation would need to show a pattern of behavior |
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Inland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 09:18 PM Response to Original message |
4. You mean, is it evidence of something? |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 09:21 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. Just one ten years ago... it would be hard to argue |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 09:31 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. she made the accusation at age 18 |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 09:34 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. Sorry I didn't see that part--still, it would be hard to make the case |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:36 PM Response to Reply #6 |
18. WTF? |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 07:43 PM Response to Reply #6 |
35. 18-yr olds don't "suddenly remember." |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 10:52 PM Response to Reply #35 |
48. when we are talking abt someone's freedom |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 11:41 PM Response to Reply #48 |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 11:08 PM Response to Reply #35 |
51. At age 15, I "suddenly remembered" being molested at age 8. |
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progressivebydesign (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 08:27 PM Response to Reply #6 |
44. She made it 3 years later because she feared for her safety.. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 10:55 PM Response to Reply #44 |
49. sure i've heard of it and i think it should worry sane people |
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Spike from MN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-30-06 10:55 PM Response to Reply #6 |
70. As others have pointed out, she didn't "suddenly remember." |
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Inland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 05:48 PM Response to Reply #5 |
19. It would be hard, indeed, to accuse her of a pathology |
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msongs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
8. or it could have been false then AND true now |
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CatWoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 09:54 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. ouch!! |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 09:50 PM Response to Original message |
9. Could Be All Of The Above. |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:18 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. No, it can't be all of the above. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:26 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Yes, It Can Be. And Yes, You Are Nitpicking LOL |
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stillcool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:12 PM Response to Original message |
11. many...many...children... |
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Neil Lisst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:12 PM Response to Original message |
12. until we know more about the prior incident, we won't know the impact |
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Pavulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:22 PM Response to Original message |
14. Declined to prosecute a triple |
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Freedom_Aflaim (745 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
16. Could be any of those things |
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Patsy Stone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:34 PM Response to Original message |
17. No, No, and Yes, IMO. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 06:08 PM Response to Original message |
20. Any of the options are possible, but I don't see how any could |
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Just Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 06:19 PM Response to Original message |
21. Question: If my boyfriend had sex with me when I was unconscious,... |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 06:25 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. Yes, that was rape. |
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Just Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 06:36 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. And to think, I tried to excuse his behavior,... |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 06:38 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. ~~~ |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 07:19 PM Response to Reply #24 |
32. I hope you can learn to love and honor yourself more than that. |
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Just Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 08:07 PM Response to Reply #32 |
37. I think I confused love and loving with tolerance and,... |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 10:20 PM Response to Reply #37 |
45. Once upon a time ... |
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Balbus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 07:16 PM Response to Reply #21 |
29. No doubt about it. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 07:18 PM Response to Reply #21 |
31. I'd say it's time to get a new boyfriend ... and file charges. |
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progressivebydesign (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 08:23 PM Response to Reply #21 |
42. Sorry.. that's rape. |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 06:23 PM Response to Original message |
22. Depends. |
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Neil Lisst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 06:58 PM Response to Original message |
26. We would want to know if you lied or told the truth the time before. |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 07:01 PM Response to Original message |
27. A common trait of rape & molestation victims is promiscuity... |
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Just Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 08:19 PM Response to Reply #27 |
40. I'd appreciate documentation of that assertion. |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 11:44 PM Response to Reply #40 |
56. It's only unsupported if you haven't researched it. |
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progressivebydesign (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 08:25 PM Response to Reply #27 |
43. I think you mean after the rape? |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 11:26 PM Response to Reply #43 |
52. correct. |
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NaturalHigh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 07:11 PM Response to Original message |
28. It means that we should examine each case... |
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Beaverhausen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 07:17 PM Response to Original message |
30. One doesn't have anything to do with the other |
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matcom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 07:32 PM Response to Original message |
33. or, if you were lying then... |
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Hell Hath No Fury (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
34. I have a girlfriend... |
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nashville_brook (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 07:45 PM Response to Original message |
36. it means the defense is playing hardball |
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Egalitariat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 08:12 PM Response to Original message |
38. There are 4 options.... |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 08:16 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. Well said! Except the accuser and she's not talking to the press. |
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progressivebydesign (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 08:21 PM Response to Original message |
41. Thanks for posting this thread.. I was getting really upset! |
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jazzjunkysue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 10:41 PM Response to Original message |
46. It proves she knew what she was getting into....That's the point. |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-29-06 10:49 AM Response to Reply #46 |
63. Really! |
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femmedem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 10:46 PM Response to Original message |
47. Let's say I was mugged, and 10 years ago I made a similar accusation |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 11:02 PM Response to Reply #47 |
50. your insurance company would question yr repeat claims |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 11:30 PM Response to Original message |
53. In general terms, |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 11:31 PM Response to Original message |
54. um, that was me. n/t |
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cherokeeprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 11:45 PM Response to Original message |
57. It's really simple: If you SAY you were raped, you WERE raped. |
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Neil Lisst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 11:48 PM Response to Reply #57 |
58. I hope you're kidding. |
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cherokeeprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-29-06 01:09 AM Response to Reply #58 |
60. I'm not kidding. Tell me why I should be. |
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Neil Lisst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-29-06 01:34 AM Response to Reply #60 |
61. if you're saying a man accused of rape is presumed guilty, I agree |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-29-06 11:11 AM Response to Reply #61 |
64. true, because we know the rate of false accusal is of epidimic heights |
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Neil Lisst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-29-06 11:37 AM Response to Reply #64 |
65. and your personal experience has skewed your view |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-29-06 11:45 AM Response to Reply #65 |
66. Okay, I will buy that - however |
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Spike from MN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-30-06 10:11 PM Response to Reply #64 |
69. Here are the stats you were asking for. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-28-06 11:49 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. You gotta be kidding. |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-01-06 01:09 AM Response to Reply #57 |
73. Wow. That's just bizarre |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-29-06 02:04 AM Response to Original message |
62. Deleted sub-thread |
DanCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-29-06 11:50 AM Response to Original message |
67. No it doesn't |
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NaturalHigh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-29-06 04:00 PM Response to Reply #67 |
68. You're right... |
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KingFlorez (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-30-06 11:01 PM Response to Original message |
71. No it doesn't |
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Nobody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-30-06 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
72. I'm curious: if there is a 1 in four chance of any given woman being raped |
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