The game where one person dominates another is well sick. I know there are S/M people who are into it,and will excuse it call it healthy play or whatever. I don't buy it, I myself do not see causing or receiving pain and torture,humiliation as an act of love~ ever.. It is an act of sickness homo-erotic or otherwise,
Military prostitution is viewed as rest and relaxation, entertainment for the troops. While the purported "goal" of the sexual humiliation of Abu Ghraib prisoners was to extract vital information, the photos tell a more twisted story. The cheery faces tell us that dramatizing the metaphoric rape of the Iraqi nation by acting out the sexual domination of Iraqi men was big fun. Casting themselves as directors and actors in the drama of sexual humiliation, the prison guards clearly believed that they could do whatever they wished, and thoroughly enjoy themselves in the process. Was it un-American for them to think so ? Not when the core message of their commander-in-chief to the Iraqi people has been, "You will bow down to our capacity to dominate, and we will exercise that capacity despite global opposition."
The struggle over assigning culpability has taken on the character of a high-stakes political tango. That struggle will intensify. Although there’s no question but that everyone responsible, from the immediate perpetrators on up, must be held to account, culpability runs far deeper.
It may be hard to get up in the morning and face this fact, but we are, collectively, as guilty as hell. We elect representatives who feed the military monster. We honor sadistic hyper-masculinity, awarding those who portray it best with governorships (e.g. Arnold Schwarzenneger). We devote vast resources to bondage and discipline in our criminal justice system. And we lie to ourselves unceasingly. The world is weary of, and profoundly angered by, America’s tattered claim of innocence.
The soldiers at Abu Ghraib pulled back the curtain on their perverse enactments so that we may see who we are. Do we have the courage to look ? Do we have the will to change ?
http://www.guardian.co.uk/comment/story/0,3604,1222354,00.htmlTrauma can mess with your mind Trauma can cause a person who was harmed to seek to rewrite the past in the present,as a way to find a healthy resolution, it's called retraumatization.Sadists are more than eager because of their innate psychopathy to indulge victims of trauma and act out fantasies on them,It is not mutually beneficial as S/M practitioners would like to get you to believe.People DIE trying to resolve their own past traumas with sadistic assholes with home dungeons..
http://www.bullyonline.org/related/abuse.htmhttp://www.goessoftlyishere.com/RETRAUMATIZATION.htmlhttp://psychservices.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/content/full/52/11/1453There is NOTHING erotic about bullying,or suffering unless you are conditioned by some past trauma in your life to associate trauma with sexual arousal or pain as pleasure. It is a CONDITIONED response to traumatization.. Child abuse can do that to a person,pedophilia incest,torture and witnessing it ..All these things can warp a child's sexuality for LIFE..ABUSE IS WRONG.Torture is WRONG. I don't care what rationalizations there are it is WRONG.