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Mabus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 02:22 PM
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Gail Sheehy's "The Accidental Candidate" puts a lot of things in perspective
Edited on Sun Jan-14-07 03:09 PM by Mabus
Do you remember the article written by Gail Sheehy and published in Vanity Fair before the 2000 election? Her article was called "The Accidental Candidate" and it had some interesting vignettes about Bush's childhood that struck me while he was making his speech calling for an escalation of troops in Iraq. The part of the article that came to mind was the part recounting W's constant wanting of "do-overs" until he either wore out the other kids (they let him win so they could go home) or until his momma made him stop (by calling him to dinner or taking him to task). He also had a habit of making new rules as he went along. No matter how you look at, W would never admit defeat and would do anything to either win or make it look like he had won.

He likes best to run in the hammering heat of the Texas noonday sun, and he hits the concrete running. No warm-up, no stretching. George Bush is a "red-ass in a hurry," as the sportswriters say in Texas, meaning he has a whole lot of energy and aggression to burn off or he's likely to blow. He has always been that way. When Barbara Bush took her 13-year-old son and his best friend, Doug Hannah, to play golf at her Houston club, George would start cursing if he didn't tee off well. His mother would tell him to quit it. By the third or fourth hole he would be yelling "Fuck this" until he had ensured that his mother would send him to the car.

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Once, after his mother banished him from the golf course, she turned to Hannah and declared, "That boy is going to have optical rectosis." What did that mean? "She said, ‘A shitty outlook on life.'"

Even if he loses, his friends say, he doesn't lose. He'll just change the score, or change the rules, or make his opponent play until he can beat him. "If you were playing basketball and you were playing to 11 and he was down, you went to 15," says Hannah, now a Dallas insurance executive. "If he wasn't winning, he would quit. He would just walk off.... It's what we called Bush Effort: If I don't like the game, I take my ball and go home. Very few people can get away with that." So why could George get away with it? "He was just too easygoing and too pleasant."


He hasn't changed at all. His call for a surge is nothing more than what he did as a kid: redefine the rules of the game (and it is all a game to him) so he doesn't lose, at least not in his mind. He's a child who is afraid of looking weak and his mentality has never changed.

Another fast friend, Roland Betts, acknowledges that it is the same in tennis. In November 1992, Bush and Betts were in Santa Fe to host a dinner party, but they had just enough time for one set of doubles. The former Yale classmates were on opposite sides of the net. "There was only one problem—my side won the first set," recalls Betts. "O.K., then we're going two out of three," Bush decreed. Bush's side takes the next set. But Betts's side is winning the third set when it starts to snow. Hard, fat flakes. The catering truck pulls up. But Bush won't let anybody quit. "He's pissed. George runs his mouth constantly," says Betts indulgently. "He's making fun of your last shot, mocking you, needling you, goading you—he never shuts up!" They continued to play tennis through a driving snowstorm.

It is something of an in-joke with Bush's friends and family. "In reality we all know who won, but George wants to go further to see what happens," says an old family friend, venture capitalist and former MGM chairman Louis "Bo" Polk Jr. "George would say, ‘Play that one over,' or ‘I wasn't quite ready.' The overtimes are what's fun, so you make your own. When you go that extra mile or that extra point ... you go to a whole new level."


He's doing the same thing. He's trying to change the rules of his war game, so his side wins. The sad part is, he's stopped playing for America's team a long time ago. He's out for himself, his friends and, more importantly, he's out to save his legacy so he will be thought a winner, if only in his own mind. And he doesn't care who has to die when he takes to it "a whole new level". All that matters is to him is that he doesn't feel like the loser he is.



edited to correct link
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 02:28 PM
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1. What a memory, Mabus! And nom!
Edited on Sun Jan-14-07 02:29 PM by babylonsister
What an article; even at 13 he was incorrigible and Babs couldn't control him. His 'optical rectosis' is ruining our country.:(
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mcscajun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 02:29 PM
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2. Link problem...
Edited on Sun Jan-14-07 02:29 PM by mcscajun
there are a couple of extra characters that snuck in there.

http://gailsheehy.com/Politics/polimain_bush3.html

:hi:

Thanks for posting this for those of us who missed it first time out.

Going off to read now. :)
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Mabus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 03:04 PM
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5. Changed it
Thanks for catching it.
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KoKo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 02:57 PM
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3. Kick....explains a lot, doesn't it. n/t
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Diane R Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 02:58 PM
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4. Thank you.. I knew I read that somewhere, and could never find it. Here's the link:
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Mabus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 03:05 PM
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6. Thanks for catching that
I posted it and then wandered off to do other things. I should remember to check the links with "preview" before posting. :spank:
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bleever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 03:07 PM
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7. Thanks for that very timely review of what really motivates *
and how he has historically approached the rules of whatever "game" he's playing.

Recommended!
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Mabus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 03:18 PM
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8. and, unfortunately for us, the stakes are the same
His ego must be stroked and his critics assuaged.
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Pirate Smile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 03:31 PM
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9. Great work, Mabus. This should be frontpaged. It reminded me of this article
by Howard Fineman.


The win-at-all-costs president
Secret tapes show Bush’s combative side


ANALYSIS
By Howard Fineman
MSNBC contributor
Updated: 1:58 p.m. CT Feb 23, 2005

WASHINGTON -

-snip-
As a boy in Maine, he was the oldest of many cousins and would set the rules for summer games at the family compound. “If he was losing he’d change the rules — or take the ball and leave,” one cousin told me. Then there was the time when, as a new kid, just up from Texas at his prep school Andover, Bush was tripped and mocked early in an intramural soccer match. He waited for a chance to exact revenge — then blindsided his foe so viciously he nearly broke the boy’s ankle. “He spent that match angling to take me out,” said the Andover alum, now a successful businessman. “And he did.”

-snip-
Far more revealing are the glimpses into the combative, even arrogant heart of Bush’s character — and that of the Bush Clan. These are people expert at boarding-school blasé, at hiding a seething need to win behind a veil of bumbling nonchalance.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/7017489/


I think Fineman had another article with more details on this aspect of Bush but I didn't see it when I googled.
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Diane R Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 04:32 PM
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12. We need to get these articles out there.
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KT2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 04:15 PM
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10. So his morphing of reasons
for being in Iraq are his way of "winning" in his mind, even though failure is all around him.

Impeach the psycho.
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DeepModem Mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 04:21 PM
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11. K&R!
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Stephanie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 04:36 PM
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13. ditto
the little shit.
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Morgana LaFey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 05:42 PM
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14. That's the article with the frogs and firecrackers, isn't it?
Does it also have the Carlson Tucker / Carla Faye Tucker (no relationship) incident?
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Stephanie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 05:43 PM
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15. frogs and firecrackers was a NYT profile
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Morgana LaFey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 08:59 PM
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17. Thanks nt
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Mabus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 05:49 PM
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16. No
But mention of the frogs can be found here: http://www.commondreams.org/views02/1215-03.htm

And the Karla Faye Tucker incident is recounted on the wiki at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karla_Faye_Tucker#Karla_Tucker_and_George_W._Bush
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Pirate Smile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-14-07 10:29 PM
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18. kick
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