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Solomon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 08:40 AM
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Bruno. A Perfect Example of Today's Racism.
On the show, "Black and White", the white guy's name is Bruno.(What an appropriate name).

He denies that racism exists. He says blacks bring it on themselves, seeing stuff that doesn't really exist.

He has a superior attitude. He knows what the problems of blacks are. He harbors every negative stereotype ever created about black people. It's all their own fault. They need to get over it. He loves saying the word "nigger".

The second episode was a true eye opener about such people. Bruno is willing to participate gleefully in everything that reinforces his racist view of black people. When he finds himself in a group discussion where blacks are exhibiting moral values, his head explodes, "I can't take this, I gotta get out of here." He avoids looking at anything about blacks that interferes with his stereotype. Never sees the good, but exults when he sees the bad.

Anyway, watching the meltdown of his wife was interesting. Bruno and his wife, all made up in black face, go to a redneck type honky-tonk bar. The wife experiences the bigotry first hand. She sees the hateful stares. The bar tender asks for her credit card before giving her a drink. That's never happened to her as a white person. She's starting to see.

Bruno, on the other hand, dances up the night amongst the hateful stares declaring that he was treated just like a regular guy. White people aren't racist. It's a figment of black people's imaginations. Black people are looking for something that isn't there. He simply ignored the hateful stares (denied he was getting them) and that makes them all go away.

The wife starts to see how hardheaded Bruno is. "He won't let go of his pre-conceived beliefs" she moans.

Later in the episode, Bruno, made-up as black, accompanies his wife who is not made-up as black, through a section of a popular park where blacks gather to beat drums and socialize. Naturally since he is perceived as a black man bringing a white woman into their space, he gets hateful stares. This time he sees them. He sees them because these are now black people hating. He loudly pronounces that he has never experienced such racism and hostility in all his life. The show person kinda points out to him that since he was made-up as a black man, what he'ssaying doesn't make sense. He's forgetting now that to them he's a black man too. He refuses to see that it's because he has brought a white woman there. His wife gets it though. She's starting to see how this stuff works to the point where it brings her to tears as she starts to understand that black people have to go through the same dreadful feelings she is experiencing, every day of the week. Not just for a little while in black-face. Everyday. She cries as she contemplates what it must feel like to be hated just for the color of your skin.

What ticks me off about Bruno and his attitude, the show didn't do it right. Bruno thinks whites don't have any problem with race. As a white man in the presence of the real black man on the show, Bruno asks a white stranger if he has any problem with interacial dating and whatnot. Of course the man says no, and Bruno is satisfied. See that proves it.

But the show didn't quite do it right. When Bruno went into that honky-tonk bar mentioned earlier, he should have went in as a black man with a white woman, just like he did when he went through the park.

I'd like to have seen what would have happened to him if he'd gone in there the same way, dancing and laughing in their faces, putting up a good time ignoring them. He and his white woman. I can hear him now hollering, "I'm not black", "it's shoe polish see". "Stop, I'm a white man."

Anyway, at one point in the show, Bruno's bigotry is explained. He tells his wife in front of the cameras that when he was in high school, he was the best basketball player on the team, but the other four black guys would never give him the ball.

And I thought, what a metaphor. Bruno thinks he has gotten over that. "Moved on, that's how you deal with it."

But what's brutally clear is that Bruno has not "moved on." He still feels the same way. If you level the playing field, if you let the blacks play the game of life too, he, Bruno, will never get the "ball".

Then his wife makes the most poignant point to Bruno. Okay, let's say it's true what you experienced. You're the only white guy on the team and the black players won't give you the ball. Can you imagine how a black person feels being the only black person in the room...

Bruno is so thick this goes completely over his head. "You get over it and move on, just as I did, that's how you handle it." It's all too clear that he never "got over it."

I'm waiting for Bruno to get his crucial come-uppance. In the first episode they sent him as a black man to a car dealership, and he bragged about how he was not treated any differently than a white man. That pissed me off because anybody who has ever had to buy a car recently knows that car salesmen are so desparate to make a sale, they'll kiss anybody's ass.

I'm waiting for the episode when he tries to get a job or that nice big house over there in that exclusive neighborhood.

No doubt he'll find some reason to blow it off. Racism doesn't exist anymore (unless it's blacks hating whites). Black people are just too damn sensitive and see racism where it doesn't exist.

It's amazing though to see how he makes sure he keeps his racist attitude. He ignores all the good one can see in black people, in fact he literally runs from it.

Anyway, sorry for the long rant. Don't be a Bruno.

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annabanana Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 08:44 AM
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1. I haven't been watching this show
probably because I thought it would just be a meaningless stunt. Maybe I'll tune in.
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malaise Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 08:55 AM
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2. It's an interesting show
I rarely watch anything but news and Rome but I'll be watching this one.
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OhioChick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 09:01 AM
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3. I've been watching this show for the past few weeks....
and to be honest, I think that the only one that will end up walking away from the series with more compassion is the teenage white girl. She appears to be the only passionate person willing to open up her eyes and heart and really try.

I agree.......Bruno is an ass.
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warrior1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 09:01 AM
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4. I've been watching
What I had figured out about Carmen is, it's all about her. Her feelings, and how she really can't see what she says is insensitive and politely racist. Like when she called a young woman, "You beautiful black creature.", WTF.

I can't remember Renee's husbands name but later when they were discussing what she had said, He said, "Now what I called you beautiful white creature.", They had a good laugh with that. I really do like Renee, she grounded and smart.

I'll keep watching this to see if Bruno and his wife can catch a clue about what it feels like being black in a very white world.

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Solomon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 10:42 AM
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10. Oh I think his wife is okay. Yeah she was chock full of stereotypes and
yes she's out of it, but on the other hand, she's open minded and a lot more honest than Bruno.
She is willing to learn. Bruno has a completely closed mind. So far, at least.
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InternalDialogue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 09:03 AM
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5. Thanks for the words, Solomon.
I haven't seen the show yet, didn't know enough about it to decide to invest time. But your descriptions and analysis are great, and I think I'll take a look.

The issues that you're getting at are personal to me, because my father holds a lot of the same prejudices. We're white, and he rarely voices them to me, and where he lives he hardly ever has to confront those prejudices in a real situation -- most of his viewpoints are informed by what he watches on TV and reads, and a lot of that is the conservative bullshit I hate. But I live in the city, in a neighborhood where I used to be a minority (things have changed over 13 years). I didn't ever feel the racism of being different, but I saw it playing out among black and native American people who lived around me. It's real, and it's not always overt or life-threatening -- but then, it doesn't have to be. Racism and discrimination of any kind, at any volume, of any consequences whatsoever is damaging and persistent. It's like sediment choking a river; even if it's so slight as to be unnoticeable, it builds in the system, and years or a lifetime of it will change a person's course in life.
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knitter4democracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 09:15 AM
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6. I can't stand the white parents, but their daughter has a future.
I watched the episode when she revealed herself to her writing group, and I don't think she'll ever forget that. Not ever. That was powerful stuff, the kind of thing that changes you. She seemed to finally get it, even though it was the boys doing most of the talking and ultimately accepting.

Her parents, though, are a lost cause. Where did they get these people? Bruno is an ass, and his wife is barely okay. She has so very many stereotypes in her head that need to get erased that I don't think this one experience will take care of it.

She makes me think of my mom who went on a church trip to inner city Cleveland who made some progress in her thinking but never went on from there. Frankly, she embarrasses me whenever she starts remembering that trip or talking about racial issues, as she doesn't even see that what she's saying is bad. She really thinks that being patronizing is being nice.

I haven't seen much with the African American family, though. When are they going to start going more places and shopping and stuff? They seem really level-headed, and how they've kept from exploding at some of that crap that Bruno spouts off, I have no idea.

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NYCGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 11:11 AM
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13. The daughter, Rose, is definitely the smartest one of the bunch.
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CBGLuthier Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 09:21 AM
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7. Speaking of stereotypes and preconceptions
Why do you say that Bruno is an appropriate name?

What does that name mean to you?
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Solomon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 10:40 AM
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9. He's somewhat of a brute. Ignorant and proud of it. Hardheaded.
Edited on Fri Mar-24-06 10:46 AM by Solomon
Out of that long post, that's the only thing you picked up on, huh. Very telling. Now go ahead and equate that with racism if you want to.
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CBGLuthier Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 11:22 AM
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14. no, that isn't the only thing
I just think it is very strange to start a long post about racism by making a comment about someone's name being appropriate.

It may not be racism but it is bigoted to make those assumptions.

I don't assume everyone named George is an idiot.
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Solomon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-25-06 08:23 AM
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17. Okay Bruno.
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zbdent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 09:31 AM
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8. What would have been interesting is this
If they would let Bruno drive a Porsche, or some other nice, EXPENSIVE car.

Let him drive it through the back areas of Alabama (or his old stomping grounds).

Let's see how long it is before he's hauled out of the car and placed on the ground for "stealing" a car . . .
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Swamp Rat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 10:47 AM
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11. He loves saying the word "nigger" yet says racism doesn't exist?
:eyes: The only cure for Bruno is a frontal lobotomy.
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shugah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 11:06 AM
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12. i haven't been watching the show
but i did see the families on oprah. you've got bruno pegged, that's for sure! what a smug, insufferable, ignorant fool! i don't even know if i could stand to watch the show because of him. it's bad enough when people don't "get it," but it is unforgivable that someone who (i assume) volunteered to explore racism from the other side is so blind, so unable to think, so... STUPID!!! ack!

what channel and time is it on, anyway? i thought it was an interesting idea, but wasn't aware that it was already airing.
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hadrons Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 11:45 AM
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15. The black parents see racism everything, the white parents see it nowhere
Edited on Fri Mar-24-06 11:46 AM by hadrons
that's my impression, the son looks like he doesn't want to be there, but the daughter is at least trying (though her poetry is horrible - and she's cutier Black than White)

BTW, to view Bruno's acting credits, go to: http://uk.imdb.com/name/nm0545969/

Rose on the Disney Channel: http://disney.go.com/disneypictures/moviesurfers/
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knitter4democracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-24-06 03:53 PM
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16. That hasn't been mine.
I don't know how the black parents haven't left the show yet or seriously gone off screaming at everyone. What I've seen of them talking about racism, it seemed like a genuine event.

I wish they hadn't called that group a writing class--all of the writing was weak and seemed more geared to letting the kids vent. They can call it a consciousness raising group, but it sure wasn't like any writing group I've ever seen.
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