Many of the Tory/anti-revolutionary side (or as historians call them up here, UELs -- United Empire Loyalists) ended up moving to Canada, in large enough numbers to kick-start the country's expansion. Having a UEL ancestor used to be the Canadian equivalent of being connected with the Mayflower.
http://history.cbc.ca/history/?MIval=/EpHome.html&episode_id=5&lang=EOkay, some were snobbish and reactionary (by today's standards) -- but there were also decent folks among them. Arguably, Canada in its present form would likely not exist if it hadn't been for them ... in fact, a complicated history of cooperation (and conflict) with the US over many generations has made us who we are today. (The party currently forming Canada's government calls itself "Tory", but most Canadians do NOT support their agenda -- that's why they have a precarious minority which was mainly a protest vote.)
At the time of the Revolutionary War, there are numerous accounts of reasonable people on both sides, despite political differences, intervening to prevent friends and neighbours from being robbed, beaten, or worse. I was greatly moved by this -- and so was President Carter, when he wrote his recent book on the era. He hadn't expected to feel sorry for those on the opposing side, but he did. That's the humane, compassionate, down-to-earth side of America which makes me glad that the revolutionaries won!
Bush's more rabid supporters remind me of the bitter, angry fanatics who organized the tar-and-feathering (something we would likely classify as torture today), or outright lynching, of fellow colonists. And the opportunists who stirred things up on purpose, to be able to loot property. Their motives aren't any more patriotic than those of the later agitators who were itching for the Civil War to begin, for their own glory and profit -- boasting about how wonderful it would be to shoot a Virginian or a New Yorker through the head, on the field of battle.
Sad to think that those who are fanatically clinging to Bush while branding any criticism, however slight, as coming from "the evil empire", haven't learned after all these years that you can't build a stable democratic nation on hatred and vengeance. George Washington and Thomas Jefferson -- and later on, Abe Lincoln -- didn't show up on the historical equivalent of FOX News, trash-talking the opposition and calling them subhuman, and calling for the assassination of Hugo Chavez (or Michael Moore, for that matter). I may be a Canadian, but there are lots of things I admire about America's founders -- and it pains me to see Bush's people equating their guy to the nation-builders of the past.