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About the Sound and Fury. I keep missing it though. Maybe some clips might be on YouTube or Google Video?
My problem with people saying that they are against the child getting a CI is because it's "forcing" them to have the surgery. If you asked ANY hearing parent of a hearing child, "Would you do anything to improve your child's life if you find out they have a lifelong disability?" The majority of them will say YES.
I did NOT want the CI when I was 8 because the surgery was huge back then, shaving off half of your head and doing the surgery (plenty of CI-ed adults from that era have a visible bald line when they're in the pool). There was an even earlier model when I was 6 (1987) and my parents felt that the CI could be better and refused that option.
Right now, The CIs are so much more advanced, the incision is smaller, and it's a much easier surgery than 20 years ago. Advanced to a point that two deaf children, born genetically deaf to hearing parents who had never met a deaf person before their babies, whose cochleas were basically bone. They had CIed them, using an alternative form of CI surgery, attaching the CI outside the cochlea. The two kids are now teenagers and they can hear so well with their CIs. Much much better than me.
With me, I got my CI at 16, I'm still getting used to my CI and I wished the technology was around when I was younger. The two deaf children I know are now 14 and 12 respectively and they got their CI when they were 5 and 4, and they beat me in communication skills. No interpreters/transliterators in class, and they communicate with quite fluid ease.
CIs are best put in children when they are quite young in order to let them develop their "hearing" over time. It is like language, a child can easily acquire language while an adult will have trouble acquiring a new language. At 16, I was quite slow in my listening skills as my hearing aids were quite rudimentary. I've finally caught up somewhat.
As a parent, they will always make the choices for their child until they are 18. So in theory, you're "forcing" your child to adapt to a certain lifestyle which they might end up hating when they're of age.
I've talked to deaf teenagers who knew sign-language but lived in small communities with relatively few deaf children and they told me that they wished their parents had found out about Cued Speech before ASL because they had watched me communicate with hearing people by lipreading and speaking.
If 90% of deaf children are born to hearing parents, I would bet that nearly 100% of the time those parents will make the decision to implant their children. When I babysat during a conference for deaf children, 99% of the toddlers were implanted. The 1% later got implanted, the next time I saw them.
Your views are typical of the "Deaf Culture," not wanting to force surgery on their children even if it will improve their lives. I had participated in a panel a few years back and of the 5 young adult (me)/teens, 1 had a deaf father. 4 (hearing parents) of the 5 said they would take advantage of the technology and implant us at a younger age. The deaf father was enraged and tried to rail against the CI, saying that he would never subject his daughter to that form of torture.
It was a small conference for parents of newly deafened children deciding what was the best option for them. Most of them went towards the Cued Speech/Oral and semi-ASL parents and very few went towards the ASL-only father as he was quite stubborn in his position.
It is best to keep an open mind when dealing with deaf children. Most of the parents I've met that had their children implanted at a young age said that it was the best decision they've made. (at the Alexander Graham Bell Conference, Cued Speech meetings, and some small local deaf issues meet ups which also had a mix of ASL, Cue, and oral issues)
As an adult, you have choices while a child needs some guidance, ie the parent makes the choices. Plenty of "Deaf Culture" people told my mother that she was forcing me to be "hearing" by not using ASL. I am so glad she made that decision and it has greatly improved my life.
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