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normal, or at least neurotypical, to being autistic overnight.
My oldest son has Asperger's, and every so often someone asks me if I think vaccinations caused it. It's all I can do to refrain from hitting them. He was always different, even though it took until he was 18 years old to figure out what was actually the diagnosable thing with him. He's 27 now, so part of it was that Asperger's wasn't recognized until 1994.
Anyway, the more I read about AS, the more I've realized that from the very beginning, from early infancy, he was autistic. It's just that, consistent with AS, he had no language delays, his intelligence is above normal, and he functioned more or less well in school settings.
For what it's worth, that same son as Alopecia Universalis, which is an auto-immune disorder which causes hair loss. All of his hair fell out when he was four years old. So many people blithely say, Oh, it's stress, and those people I REALLY want to hit. I may not have been the best mom in the world, but I was not such a monster as to cause such stress as to make his hair fall out.
Oh, and it's obvious to me that those two things have nothing to do with each other. He just happens to have them. Just like someone might have blue eyes and curly hair. Or brown skin and be left handed. Just to come up with two examples of traits that aren't related to each other. But if someone only noticed the blue eyed people with curly hair, or the left-handed brown skinned ones, they'd falsely think one causes the other.
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