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Sanctified Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-09-07 01:37 AM
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It's 11:30 PM and my neighbor behind me is verbally abusing his wife again.
I called the cops because the guy is screaming all sorts of obscenities at her. I really hope this woman gets a clue and gets out of there before she becomes a statistic, the guy is fucking nuts and goes ape shit on anyone in the neighborhood who happens to rub him wrong. This is the same guy that sent his wife to my house to tell me to keep my kids indoors because their laughter bothered him during the day.
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PDJane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-09-07 01:41 AM
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1. Oh, just brilliant...........
there are reasons I live in a cooperative.
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blogslut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-09-07 01:41 AM
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2. I don't envy you
I am glad you called the police. I just hope your raging neighbor doesn't escalate his behavior. Also, I hope his wife gets some help.
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AuntPatsy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-09-07 01:45 AM
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3. You can hope but she won't if it's been going on that long she just won't.
one of my nephews just got out of jail today after two days behind bars for physicaly assaulting his wife in front of thier toddler and putting a gun to her head, the neighbor called the police for her, he was taken but my sister in law completely blames the wife for her son going to jail.

Believe it or not what the mother told her and me is that the young girl needs to learn to shut her mouth when he is in one of his moods, that she provoked him and deserved it, I tried gently to explain to her that no one deserves that kind of abuse, and though she agreed with me she still believes the wife should learn to not to push when her youthful husband who hasn't worked a day in his life by the way and lives offf his parents is in one of his moods.

Its a crazy world out there, the wife took him back terrified he was mad at her and beggin my sister in law not to be upset with her, far too many like them around, another reason not enough citizens fighting the good fight, they are far too rapped up in bullshit such as this...

Good luck with your neighbor, just to let you know, if you call the cops, which you should be the way, don't be surprised if she finds out it was you and gets upset with you, they are weird like that, but in the past month we have had two domestic homocides in our city, it can happne, do what you can but don't expect thanks.
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Sanctified Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-09-07 02:05 AM
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6. WTF is up with his mom.
My mother would beat my ass if I so much as raised my voice to my wife, of course she left my father because he was abusive. But seriously if my mom ever finds out that me and my wife have had a disagreement she takes my wifes side without even listening to the facts.

I have learned real quick the only way out of getting the beat down from my wife and mom is to just say, "I am sorry, you are right, it was my fault, it won't happen again." anytime my wife and I have a disagreement.
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mykpart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-09-07 01:47 AM
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4. Thank you for calling the police.
Call them every time you hear abuse. Then there will be a record of it. It would help if you and the neighbors could let the wife know she has friends. Isolating the victim is one way the abusers get away with this. From a former battered wife.
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Sanctified Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-09-07 02:08 AM
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7. I don't know if she would listen if we told her she has friends.
The only time she goes to a neighbors house is to complain on behalf of her husband.
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Quantess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-09-07 01:49 AM
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5. Hopefully, it will all be filmed for "COPS"
If any guy takes his shirt off, tell him to watch out "COPS" are coming!
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