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I'm sorry your having a hard time. The first few years are the worst, if that helps. I don't believe everyone should make themselves stay in education if they are unhappy, that said we do need you. Here are some thoughts that might help.
You can only do what the student allows you to do. The trick is in making them want to learn. Don't spend all your time at school, have a healthy home and social life. Take things home to do them, nothing is more depressing to me than an empty school. If you buy things for your classroom make it stuff you like to use with the kids, it makes the expense more bearable. Don't volunteer for the extra things at school for the first few years, teaching will be enough. When you are given a day off take it, don't come back to the school to work. You need the time off. Remember that every year the kids change so hold on because the next year may be better than this. When you have a behavior problem student find five things to honestly tell them they do well for every negative thing you say, it will help your discipline. Stay away from toxic people on staff, even (especially) if they are your Principal. Laugh with the kids and the staff, there are some incredibly funny things that go on every day in school. Someday, trust me, someone will come up to you at the supermarket, or McDonald and say, "Mrs. Smith, you were my favorite teacher these are my kids, I hope your still there when they get to 8th grade." and you will know it was difficult, yes, but you did make a difference.
As for your question, I have always thought we would make great business trainers. There are agencies that book speaking dates for special programs. I did it for a while with other school staffs and it was a blast, but you're on the road a lot.
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