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Proud2BAmurkin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:45 PM
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Freeptards orgasming over death of lady who wouldn't get abortion to save her life
Edited on Fri Mar-02-07 08:35 PM by Proud2BAmurkin
Sick fucks. Their ideal woman is a dead one. They call her the personification of motherhood, guess you have to ask the 4 young kids she left behind.

On edit the point is the Freepturds want this or prison to be her only choice.

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To: wagglebee
What an amazing woman...



5 posted on 03/02/2007 3:05:52 PM PST by Joe 6-pack
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To: wagglebee
What an incredible story.



10 posted on 03/02/2007 3:09:01 PM PST by NittanyLion
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To: wagglebee
The personification of motherhood. God bless her!



16 posted on 03/02/2007 3:13:44 PM PST by veronica
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To: wagglebee
God bless her, her little one, husband/father, and all who love her too. Mother Love personified.



22 posted on 03/02/2007 3:28:55 PM PST by Carolinamom (Whatever you voted for, you did not vote for failure -- President Bush SOTU)
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To: everyone
Outstanding.



32 posted on 03/02/2007 4:06:39 PM PST by California Patriot
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Demeter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:47 PM
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1. The Only Women The Holy Mother Church Revers Are Martyrs
and it has always been so. The best is a dead virgin, of course.
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Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:49 PM
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5. Actually, it's virgins and martyrs, preferably virginal martyrs.
They only decided women had souls so they could send 'em to hell.
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baldguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:52 PM
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9. Not so. They revere the Blessed Virgin Mother, like most other ME goddesses from the 1st cent. BCE.
But then, all Catholic mothers are virgins.
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yourout Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:57 PM
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20. My mother must have been a virgin mother because 17 year old Catholic...
girls never had sex in the sixtys...yet here I am.


:sarcasm:
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:47 PM
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AnnInLa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:49 PM
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4. yeah, wonder if she's sorry now?
wonder how her parents, husband, other children, friends, view her decision?
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WorldResident Donating Member (288 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:50 PM
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8. Except for the fact that she did succeed in propogating her genes ...
n/t
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razors edge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:04 PM
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22. Just didn't succeed in
Edited on Fri Mar-02-07 08:07 PM by DiktatrW
personally protecting them to maturity.

Edit: Should have read the story.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:07 PM
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25. What nonsense.
She had ovarian cancer- one of the most lethal cancers you can get. Her odds of surviving it were very slim. She made a difficult choice, a deeply personal choice, and I call bullshit on anyone who dumps on her for it.
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:05 PM
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47. I will second that call.
And add "ignorance," "misogyny" and "pure assholishness" to your bullshit. Just when you think you've seen it all on DU...vile.
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northofdenali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:17 PM
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51. That was exactly what I thought. n/t
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Little Wing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:48 PM
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3. Yeah, screw the handful of other kids she left behind
:eyes:
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:10 PM
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28. Right. Because another few months, most of
which she would have been desperately ill, would have made just such a huge difference.
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kdmorris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:24 PM
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30. She lived for a full year after the baby was born
Including a period of remission during the summer of 2006. She didn't choose to die or have the baby. She choose not to have an abortion and have the treatment after her child was born. And the treatment worked. It just didn't work permanently (Ovarian cancer, like Lung cancer has a high mortality rate).

I can't believe some of the responses on this thread. I am quite Liberal and yet, there's a VERY good chance I would have made the same decision as she did.

May she rest in peace. And may her family find peace as well. The BABY didn't kill her. The OVARIAN CANCER killed her. And there's a very good likelihood that the results would have been the same even if she had started her treatment a few months earlier.
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Hav Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:50 PM
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41. .
Thanks for providing the context. I didn't want to go over there.
Not directed against the OP as I see the point, but this story is too tragic to politicize it. I agree with those who said that choice works both ways.

Although she did it to save her child, it must have still been a damn hard decision. I really hope that she and her family, knowing that there wasn't much time left, used the year they had in the best way possible to enjoy their life, despite financial troubles.
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Little Wing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:40 PM
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56. I fell victim to the headline, obviously it was intended to enflame the board
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kdmorris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:58 PM
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58. Yeah, I think it was. n/t
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sendero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:49 PM
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6. I thought suicide..
... was against their "religion".
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kdmorris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:25 PM
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31. It wasn't suicide.
Did you read the article?? Her CANCER killed her. And she got treatment after the baby was born. She lived for a year after the baby was born including a period of remission in the Summer of 2006.
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:50 PM
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7. It is irresponsible
very irresponsible. Her first responsibility was to the children she'd already created.
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WorldResident Donating Member (288 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:54 PM
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13. Even if all she was going to was extend her life by a few months by having an abortion?
The lady had cancer here, and she made a choice that's justifiable. She was the judge ... nobody else ... and may she rest in peace.
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:57 PM
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19. Oh, yeah in that case
I can see it. It's her choice regardless but if she would have been able to live through to take care of her kids it would be in my opinion an irresponsible choice.
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:15 PM
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49. Says Fuckin Who? You? Who The Fuck Are You? She Sacrificed Part Of Her Life To Save The Life Of
another. To call that irresponsible is utter fucking bullshit. Holy shit some people have just fucking lost it here. Completely fucking lost it. Some of the comments in this thread are just plain fucking disgusting.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:25 PM
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53. Yep. This thread is a disgrace
Some of these comments belong in the DU hall of shame.
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WorldResident Donating Member (288 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:52 PM
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10. She made her choice and I respect that
On a side note, I believe in a right to die and a right to make medical choices as well.
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wellstone dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:53 PM
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11. What you said, it was her choice. I respect that. nt
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Proud2BAmurkin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:05 PM
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23. yeah point is being dead is the only choice freeptard respects nt
nt
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WorldResident Donating Member (288 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:27 PM
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34. Fair enough
n/t
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RB TexLa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:53 PM
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12. Her choice

And her children should respect that.
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Sequoia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:54 PM
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14. And the husband doesn't want any doctor bills but they keep coming.
Guess God didn't tell the doctors to not charge the guy. So, who will care for the children. He'll have to get married again and have some more.
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nebenaube Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:55 PM
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15. So I take it the abortion happened anyway?
I mean it's kinda hard to bring a fetus into the world when you're dead.
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Cerridwen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:56 PM
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17. See story in link below
She had the baby in Jan. 2006 - then underwent chemo - then had several surgeries...

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Cerridwen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:55 PM
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16. For those who don't want to go to that site or the one it linked to
I found this story at a "mainstream" media website:

link to article

Community Helps Grieving Family
Feb 25, 2007 08:23 AM

FRANKLIN, Tenn.- Joshua Carlisle is a single father of four young children.

Last Saturday, he buried his wife Jennifer Ann "Jenny" Carlisle, just weeks after her 31st birthday.

"She was a phenomenal woman and there's never gonna be another like her," Joshua Carlisle said of his wife of 10 years. "She was my best friend."

When meeting her, a friend said, "I instantly fell in love with her."

Jenny Carlisle died on Feb. 15 of ovarian cancer. She discovered the disease in 2005 while pregnant with her fourth child. Among the options the family had was to terminate the pregnancy but they didn't.

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Beaverhausen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:26 PM
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33. Thanks for posting that. Ovarian Cancer is almost always fatal, right?
I doubt she would have lived much longer had she had the abortion.

I too respect her choice.

Prayers for her family.
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Cerridwen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:34 PM
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39. I feel very sorry for the father of those 4 children and the children.
He's already worrying that the bills just keep coming in. Those same people the OP talks about, will have little sympathy for him should he have to file bankruptcy or look to our current social "net" services.

I don't know that her choice would have made a difference one way or the other. I am glad she was able to make the choice she and her family thought best.

I'm not sure of the mortality rates for ovarian cancer.

What a sad state of affairs all around.

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malaise Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:56 PM
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18. They'll probably send
Foley or Haggard to look after them.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:36 PM
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40. For pete's sake
She had ovarian cancer. Do you have any clue how lethal it is? She found out about the cancer when she was two months pregnant. Doctors told her that aborting might extend her life- not save it, extend it. She made a deeply personal choice, and I find the nasty comments in this thread, as disturbing as the mass adulation for all the wrong reasons, over in freeperville. Talk about two sides to the same coin.
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gratefultobelib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:04 PM
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46. I've appreciated your comments in this thread. They've helped me understand the situation
much more clearly. Thanks.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:26 PM
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54. You're most welcome n/t
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Cabcere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 07:59 PM
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21. How tragic.
:( I feel bad for her little kids, who are going to have to grow up motherless (albeit with another sibling they wouldn't have had otherwise). So sad. :cry:
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:05 PM
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24. It is sad. The mother had a tough choice to make.
I would have supported her choice either way but I feel badly for her children.
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:09 PM
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27. Same here...on both counts
That's what "choice", in this context, is all about. People may not agree with it, but it's her body, and we should respect her decision. Just like we respect the decisions of women who get abortions, for whatever reason they feel it's necessary.

And yes, I feel horrible for her children too...

:pals:
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:09 PM
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:11 PM
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29. I'm not going to rip on this woman. She had a choice to make, and she made it. Her business.
And the operative word there is CHOICE.
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Proud2BAmurkin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:28 PM
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35. Not ripping this woman, ripping the Freepturds nt
nt
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Beaverhausen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:32 PM
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38. She is dead from cancer, NOT from not having an abortion
did you even read the article?
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Horse with no Name Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:26 PM
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32. One thing we always have to remember
Choice works two ways. I would never impose my beliefs on her and ask the same in return.
My prayers to her family.
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:28 PM
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36. Bingo
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AlCzervik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:29 PM
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37. exactly.
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:55 PM
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42. I'll second that emotion.
For me, it's all about the individual's right to make decisions regarding his or her own body. That applies to reproductive choice, that applies to end-of-life decisions, that applies to pain management for the sick and terminal, and that applies to the idea that consenting adults who choose to ingest 'forbidden' chemicals should be left the hell alone as long as they're not hurting anyone else.

It's an across-the-board principle.
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tammywammy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:01 PM
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44. Exactly
My prayers to the family as well.
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MoonRiver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 08:57 PM
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43. Abortion is a personal choice.
That woman chose to not get an abortion. Another woman may choose to get one. This is what CHOICE means.
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:03 PM
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45. I Find What She Did To Be Beautiful As Well In Its Own Way. Is There A Problem With That?
Edited on Fri Mar-02-07 09:04 PM by OPERATIONMINDCRIME
I want to make one solid declaration and then move on:

CHOICE MEANS SOME GET TO CHOOSE TO NOT ABORT TOO. That was her choice. She risked her life for her child. Why the hell this unselfish CHOICE from this woman is now a source of seeming animosity or mockery from some is disgusting in my opinion.

God rest her soul and God bless her family.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:09 PM
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BlooInBloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:15 PM
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50. That's the kind of control over a woman they DREAM for - control over her life and her death.
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otherlander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:21 PM
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52. Isn't the point of being pro-choice
that you don't condemn those who have abortions, even if you are so personally against it that you would never have one yourself?
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Fountain79 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:30 PM
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55. Not to sound like a broken record...
but it was her choice. She chose to not have the abortion and knew the risks involved. I personally don't like the concept of an abortion and I do see it as a baby and not simply a fetus. That still doesn't mean I oppose the idea or the legality of abortion as a medical treatment.
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MrSlayer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 09:51 PM
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57. Misleading headline.
The choice wasn't "have an abortion and live or carry to term and die", she was going to die no matter what. She chose to carry her child to term instead of aborting it so she could live a short time longer. Seems to me that it wasn't too hard of a choice to make. In my opinion she did the right thing. Good for her.
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Initech Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-02-07 10:00 PM
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59. Culture of life, my ass.
Sick motherfuckers. :argh:
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rebecca_herman Donating Member (494 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-05-07 07:23 PM
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60. It was HER choice
The responses of the posters on FR are disturbing, but so are some of the comments here. It was this woman's right to decide whether to have an abortion, she viewed the fetus as her child worth saving which was her right to believe, rather then aborting and still not being guaranteed a cure. She had a difficult decision and her choice should be respected, not mocked. It is pretty sick the way she's being "worshipped" on FR though, where she would have been called a murderer there if she had the abortion and did manage to survive long-term.
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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-05-07 07:39 PM
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61. This decision, like all decisions of this nature, was deeply personal
and her decision was based on her family, her faith and herself. I have no dog in this fight, I respect the woman for making what she saw as the correct decision; and w/the mortality rate ovarian CA as what it is, she likely would have died at about the same time if she had the abortion.

What I find dreadful is the absurd responses some of those on FR made. If they were in the same position, they might act completely differently. What they see as a "sacrifice" of a woman for her principles, I see as a brave woman who stuck to her principles. She need not be sanctified by the RW, most who post over there are cowards anyway; "sacrifice" is what others do.

May this young woman Rest In Peace, she earned that right.
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