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ThomWV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:34 PM Original message |
Did I do wrong? |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
1. Hmmm. What ever happened to tolerance? You demand it. nt |
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lame54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:41 PM Response to Reply #1 |
7. . |
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gratuitous (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:45 PM Response to Reply #1 |
12. Apparently . . . |
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TooBigaTent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:50 PM Response to Reply #1 |
20. Tolerance does not always mean giving in to the enemy. Unfortunately, too many Dems seem |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:52 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. Who was the enemy? One person is an atheist, the other isn't, now they're |
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TooBigaTent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:55 PM Response to Reply #24 |
27. Conclusion came from woman wanting to impose her religious beliefs on others. |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:00 PM Response to Reply #27 |
30. Wrong conclusion then. Why were they breaking bread together |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:14 PM Response to Reply #30 |
40. obviously if I say out loud something like |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 11:18 AM Response to Reply #40 |
179. You blew it with that last sentence. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:53 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. A Mature And Wise Person Would Not Consider Her An Enemy. |
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TooBigaTent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:01 PM Response to Reply #25 |
33. Snarky answer. Anyone who tries to impose their mystical belief on others is the one |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:19 PM Response to Reply #33 |
46. when I was an atheist |
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TooBigaTent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:28 PM Response to Reply #46 |
51. YOUR christist superiority is showing. My observation is that athiests are LESS selfish |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:25 PM Response to Reply #51 |
75. and I have the opposite experience, finding church people less selfish |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 12:59 PM Response to Reply #75 |
186. Atheist wackos? What the hell are those? |
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Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 07:35 PM Response to Reply #186 |
199. Maybe the Unabomber is an example? |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:41 PM Response to Reply #46 |
56. How did they react when you ate and continued conversation while they were saying grace? n/t |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:39 PM Response to Reply #46 |
137. Yup, I just don't bow my head or anything -- like during the National Anthem |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:20 PM Response to Reply #33 |
47. Deleted message |
Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:42 PM Response to Reply #33 |
114. And if you were a guest in a Hindu family's home, you would object |
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Mad_Dem_X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-30-08 09:22 AM Response to Reply #25 |
204. Thank you - whatever happened to |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:39 PM Response to Reply #20 |
78. Silly. |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:47 PM Response to Reply #78 |
81. Thanks, H20 Man, I think so, too. nt |
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Mad_Dem_X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-30-08 09:26 AM Response to Reply #78 |
205. It does, doesn't? |
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tburnsten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:11 PM Response to Reply #20 |
94. So his sister in law is his "enemy"? |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:40 PM Response to Reply #94 |
139. Yeah, I think they know it, too |
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blue52power (83 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:27 PM Response to Reply #20 |
107. What is the enemy? |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:34 PM Response to Reply #20 |
131. Whoa! Enemy? |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:37 PM Response to Reply #20 |
134. I don't consider someone wanting to say "Grace" the enemy |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:12 PM Response to Reply #1 |
38. I will tolerate anyone who tries to tolerate me |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:21 PM Response to Reply #38 |
48. She was being tolerant by asking; the OP wasn't in the way he responded. |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:17 PM Response to Reply #48 |
71. Bullshit. As a relative, she knew the score |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:25 PM Response to Reply #71 |
74. Do you know her? Her intentions? I didn't think so. nt |
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Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:15 PM Response to Reply #71 |
97. Where'd you learn to read minds? Sign me up for lessons. (nt) |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:38 PM Response to Reply #48 |
136. I guess we can't really know as we weren't there. |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:36 PM Response to Reply #38 |
133. I agree with you |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 09:02 PM Response to Reply #133 |
147. There are a whole lot of people who miss that distinction |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 07:17 AM Response to Reply #147 |
167. Yeah, I was thinking of that, too! |
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JNelson6563 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 11:53 AM Response to Reply #1 |
182. With all different beliefs at table |
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Wickerman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
2. You might have said |
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Pale Blue Dot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:38 PM Response to Original message |
3. The only thing you did wrong, IMHO, |
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Hydra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
4. The polite answer is: |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:10 PM Response to Reply #4 |
68. Yeah, I think that's a good way to handle it |
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Mad_Dem_X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-30-08 09:29 AM Response to Reply #4 |
206. Excellent answer! nt |
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scheming daemons (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
5. When you are in someone else's home, THEIR customs should be followed. |
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fed_up_mother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:45 PM Response to Reply #5 |
13. My view, as well |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:43 PM Response to Reply #13 |
57. And how do you react if they ate and continue conversations while you say grace? n/t |
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fed_up_mother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:09 PM Response to Reply #57 |
67. I'd ignore them and go on |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:15 PM Response to Reply #67 |
70. Did it ever occur to you some may find it uncomfortable? |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:41 PM Response to Reply #70 |
140. I hate that |
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fed_up_mother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-30-08 10:25 AM Response to Reply #70 |
207. "When in Rome..." |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:40 PM Response to Reply #57 |
138. Really, would it matter? |
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fed_up_mother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-30-08 07:11 PM Response to Reply #138 |
208. We just always pray as a family |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:15 PM Response to Reply #5 |
41. Agreed, this is also my answer |
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cobalt1999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:47 PM Response to Reply #5 |
61. Well said. |
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Eric J in MN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:03 PM Response to Reply #5 |
92. The SIL was presumably there because people wanted to listen to her. |
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LittleClarkie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:16 PM Response to Reply #5 |
98. That's a good view. It would have been the son's place to object or not. |
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tburnsten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:21 PM Response to Reply #5 |
103. It's never out of line to ask |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
6. It's unfortunate your SIL put you all in that situation. |
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FatherTime1408 (78 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:52 PM Response to Reply #6 |
23. Agree with you completely |
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pleah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:53 PM Response to Reply #6 |
122. Good answer, IMHO. |
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sybylla (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 02:12 PM Response to Reply #6 |
187. Absolutely agree! nt. |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
8. It's your sons house, shouldn't it really be up to him and his wife? |
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ThomWV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:44 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. Notice that she said "Anyone" mind .... |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:47 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. i am an atheist but really, i would have just let it go. Did your son or his wife speak up? |
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baby_mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 06:52 PM Response to Reply #16 |
193. I used to think this. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:42 PM Response to Reply #8 |
141. Exactly |
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lame54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:42 PM Response to Original message |
9. And long as it was short - no problem... |
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Bake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:46 PM Response to Reply #9 |
15. What a lovely idea! |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:44 PM Response to Reply #9 |
58. I would sit down and start eating. |
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lame54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:01 PM Response to Reply #58 |
66. maybe i could pick their pockets as well |
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Bettie (774 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:43 PM Response to Original message |
10. I'd have asked for a simple moment of silence |
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Gold Metal Flake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:46 PM Response to Original message |
14. I have no problem. |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:47 PM Response to Original message |
17. If someone told me they wanted to thank a big ball of something they worship for their food, |
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TooBigaTent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:49 PM Response to Original message |
18. The fundy christists always think that THEIR god and prayers are the only thing that matters. |
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LittleClarkie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:24 PM Response to Reply #18 |
105. Where does the OP say that this woman is a fundy? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:49 PM Response to Original message |
19. I Think You Were Totally Out Of Line And Furthermore Against The Values Of The Constitution. |
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Sanctified (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:57 PM Response to Reply #19 |
28. The 1st Amendment does not apply to private property. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:19 PM Response to Reply #28 |
45. Your Comprehension Was Off. |
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Sanctified (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:26 PM Response to Reply #45 |
50. I apologize for misunderstanding I just associate the Constitution to limitation of Government not.. |
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hootinholler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:19 PM Response to Reply #19 |
44. I really didn't know that atheism has a code. |
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faithfulcitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:35 PM Response to Reply #44 |
54. lol- I was thinking the same thing. I didn't think Atheists had such rules. |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 09:19 PM Response to Reply #19 |
152. Shut up about the Constitution, you idiot. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 06:35 PM Response to Reply #152 |
190. How Bout I Talk About Whatever The Fuck I Want. Work For You? Cause It Certainly Works For Me. |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 06:38 PM Response to Reply #190 |
191. I'm already over it, cockslap. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 07:03 PM Response to Reply #191 |
194. Good For You! Here's A Scooby Snack For Ya! |
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demobabe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 07:18 PM Response to Reply #19 |
196. If she asked whether anybody minded, |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
21. "Did I do wrong?" |
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Ichingcarpenter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:54 PM Response to Reply #21 |
26. I do one thanking the animals and plants that died |
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MuseRider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:44 PM Response to Reply #26 |
79. I like that! |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:55 PM Response to Reply #26 |
87. Bwahahahaha! |
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Sanctified (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
22. Did she know you and your son had such a dislike for Christianity? n/t |
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ThomWV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:37 PM Response to Reply #22 |
55. I have known her for over 30 years and its never been a secrete |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:35 PM Response to Reply #55 |
77. Sounds like soft proselytizing, then. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:51 PM Response to Reply #55 |
84. That's interesting. So this is something new for her? Maybe she recently got religion? |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:00 PM Response to Original message |
29. I wouldn't have done it out of respect for her as a person. |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:25 PM Response to Reply #29 |
106. I tried that once in a restaurant with another couple |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:00 PM Response to Original message |
31. I think it was a little tacky |
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Guaranteed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:46 PM Response to Reply #31 |
116. I think it was a little tacky from every side. |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 09:49 AM Response to Reply #116 |
175. I don't disagree, just answering the OP's question |
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truebrit71 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
32. Right...you might have told her she was more than welcome to say a silent prayer... |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
34. From your SIL asked "Anyone mind if I say Grace?" |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
35. I wouldn't have protested, but then, I'm an easygoing type. |
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islandmkl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
36. simple: question = answer |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:10 PM Response to Original message |
37. She asked, you answered. Same as asking if anyone minded if she farted. |
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woodsprite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
39. We do one of two - depending on the audience ... |
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barbtries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:00 PM Response to Reply #39 |
65. reminds me of my brother's |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
42. This was so inappropriate! You did the right thing. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
43. I would have let the host make the call... |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
49. wrong. |
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Sanctified (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:29 PM Response to Reply #49 |
52. He is a father and I know as a fellow father I rarely follow proper etiquette when dealing... |
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Mother Of Four (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:34 PM Response to Original message |
53. Need to leave it up to the host/hostess to respond. |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
59. If you said the part about babbling Christian nonsense, than I'd say you were wrong |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
60. Why would she ASK if "No" wasn't acceptable? |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:47 PM Response to Original message |
62. She asked you a question. You gave her an honest answer. That is never wrong. n/t |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:38 PM Response to Reply #62 |
112. Giving an honest answer is never wrong? |
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barbtries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:54 PM Response to Original message |
63. she asked and you answered - |
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Morrisons Ghost (324 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
64. Whatever happened to manners? |
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Eric J in MN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:57 PM Response to Reply #64 |
89. Guests were invited because the host wanted to listen to them, |
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Guaranteed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:53 PM Response to Reply #89 |
121. One might even go so far as to say that this is a family, and they "care" about each other. nt |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
69. Do people who say grace |
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Eric J in MN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:00 PM Response to Reply #69 |
91. Let's assume she doesn't say faith out loud when home alone. |
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Sanctified (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:14 PM Response to Reply #69 |
96. I had to think about that one, I have caught myself saying Grace aloud when alone so probably yes. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:23 PM Response to Reply #96 |
104. Thanks |
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Sanctified (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:31 PM Response to Reply #104 |
110. My family does it to just remind ourselves how lucky we are to have the blessings of |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:31 PM Response to Reply #69 |
109. "Water Thanks" |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 08:41 PM Response to Reply #69 |
144. I do. |
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NuttyFluffers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 04:55 AM Response to Reply #69 |
166. yes, i've seen it several times when people thought they were alone. |
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SteelPenguin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:18 PM Response to Original message |
72. Meh I wouldn't get so worked up |
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maui9002 (342 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:22 PM Response to Original message |
73. An alternative suggestion |
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MuseRider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:32 PM Response to Original message |
76. Grace may be said |
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Eric J in MN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:56 PM Response to Reply #76 |
88. It isn't a burden to listen to someone say grace for a minute. |
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MuseRider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:20 PM Response to Reply #88 |
101. I respectfully disagree |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
80. You didn't do "right." n/t |
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yellerpup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:48 PM Response to Original message |
82. I'm not the Judge, y'understand... |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:49 PM Response to Original message |
83. Is there a new spelling of "atheist" that nobody told me about? |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
85. I would have said - |
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Eric J in MN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:53 PM Response to Original message |
86. You were wrong. |
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Guaranteed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:48 PM Response to Reply #86 |
117. I agree. I think one can even go so far as to bow one's head out of respect for |
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reflection (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:51 PM Response to Reply #86 |
119. Agreed. |
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pinto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 04:58 PM Response to Original message |
90. Live and let live works for me. |
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tburnsten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:09 PM Response to Original message |
93. I think you may have been a bit harsh |
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LittleClarkie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:13 PM Response to Original message |
95. I would think keeping your kids away from something that exists in the world |
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screembloodymurder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:18 PM Response to Original message |
99. Yes. |
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DailyGrind51 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:19 PM Response to Original message |
100. Sometimes, fundamentalist "A"theism can be just as annoying as |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 09:08 PM Response to Reply #100 |
149. Get the fuck off your fucking high horse. |
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DailyGrind51 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 12:01 PM Response to Reply #149 |
183. These doctrinaire Athiests who object to the very mention of "God" meet the definition of |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 12:44 PM Response to Reply #183 |
184. What is the "doctrine"? |
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Garbo 2004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
102. What do your son and his lady think? It was their home. n/t |
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morgan2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:28 PM Response to Original message |
108. its one thing if it was her place |
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Edweird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:36 PM Response to Original message |
111. I am a card carrying member of the Church Of Satan. I couldn't care less about who prays to what. |
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LittleClarkie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:53 PM Response to Reply #111 |
123. I melt |
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Edweird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 06:29 PM Response to Reply #123 |
125. Eek. That has to suck. The drowsiness from the heat |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:22 PM Response to Reply #111 |
127. I've always wondered what draws you in to a religion that |
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Edweird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 08:53 PM Response to Reply #127 |
145. Happily :) |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 09:41 AM Response to Reply #145 |
174. Thanks for this. It did clear a few misconceptions |
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Edweird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 08:29 PM Response to Reply #174 |
200. here goes |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-30-08 08:32 AM Response to Reply #200 |
201. no disagreements |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:40 PM Response to Original message |
113. What, exactly, did you say? |
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ThomWV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:27 PM Response to Reply #113 |
128. All I said was "Yes", the 'babble christian nonsense' was in my mind |
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pleah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
115. Well, she did ask if anyone minded. So, I say no you were not wrong. |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:50 PM Response to Original message |
118. Tell her "Go ahead, but please don't do it out loud" |
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Fuzz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:53 PM Response to Original message |
120. If they are kind enough to ask, then I'd asnwer kindly. |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 05:54 PM Response to Original message |
124. I would have let her say grace....and then farted while she was in the middle of it. |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:19 PM Response to Original message |
126. wrong - it's rude to reject a blessing. |
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ThomWV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:30 PM Response to Reply #126 |
129. Would you mind telling me just what a "Blessing" is? You imply it has substance, which it does not |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 10:17 AM Response to Reply #129 |
176. To accept a blessing is not to validate the religion behind it, but the goodwill of the |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
130. If she knew that, then it really would have been more polite of her |
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NanBo (316 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:34 PM Response to Original message |
132. You said what I always think |
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janethussein (155 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
135. Yes, you did wrong. |
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mudesi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 07:46 PM Response to Original message |
142. She asked, you answered |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 08:39 PM Response to Original message |
143. Was confused. I get it now. |
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Highway61 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
146. You were at THEIR house... |
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ThomWV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 07:49 AM Response to Reply #146 |
168. No, we were at the house of 1 non-believer, 1 Hindu, 3 children, and Zero Christians |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 09:08 PM Response to Original message |
148. See Response #1 |
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Hosnon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
150. You did wrong, in my opinion. |
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awoke_in_2003 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 09:12 PM Response to Original message |
151. Don't feel bad |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 09:25 PM Response to Original message |
153. You should have offered to say grace, and said... |
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TroglodyteScholar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
154. Yes, you did wrong. n/t |
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VOX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 09:37 PM Response to Original message |
155. Yeah, I'd say you crossed a line a bit. You could have made a nice toast right after grace.. |
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frogmarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
156. Thom, you did RIGHT imo |
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csziggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 09:59 PM Response to Original message |
157. Thom, I will be in a similar dilemma Thanksgiving if DH has his way |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-28-08 10:04 PM Response to Original message |
158. Life is too short to worry about the stupid stuff. |
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Mugu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 01:15 AM Response to Original message |
159. Every family has that member that everybody else talks about |
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krispos42 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 01:30 AM Response to Original message |
160. "You are of course free to as many silent prayers as you think necessary" |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 01:45 AM Response to Original message |
161. Christmas is a national holiday in India |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 01:50 AM Response to Original message |
162. Was the SIL the homeowner or just another visitor? Unclear. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 02:29 AM Response to Original message |
163. I think you were wrong |
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1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 02:55 AM Response to Original message |
164. yes, you were wrong... |
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Greyhound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 03:07 AM Response to Original message |
165. Not at all.Tolerance is a two way street and the believers in the invisible man |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 07:59 AM Response to Original message |
169. You should have stabbed her in the neck with your fork |
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GreenEyedLefty (708 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 08:02 AM Response to Original message |
170. I think you were in the right... |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 08:02 AM Response to Original message |
171. I have no problem with When In Rome-ing my way thru such things.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 08:05 AM Response to Original message |
172. i wouldnt behave that way. her saying thank you hurts no one. those with |
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Balbus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 08:07 AM Response to Original message |
173. Yes, you were wrong. |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 10:28 AM Response to Original message |
177. Ah, diversity |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 10:29 AM Response to Original message |
178. I'm an atheist, and I think that was pretty rude. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
180. Yes, you did. |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 11:21 AM Response to Original message |
181. well she asked, and you answered honestly. |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 12:53 PM Response to Original message |
185. In the interest of interfaith community, |
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LSK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 02:16 PM Response to Original message |
188. Wrong |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
189. When you're in someone else's house, you follow their customs |
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Xenotime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 06:52 PM Response to Original message |
192. You sure showed the fundies./ |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 07:09 PM Response to Original message |
195. What would be the correct response to "anyone mind if I don't say grace" in a Christian household? |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 07:23 PM Response to Original message |
197. Wrong. |
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demobabe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-29-08 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
198. Trying to say "Right" or "Wrong" is short sighted |
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Dreamer Tatum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-30-08 09:12 AM Response to Original message |
202. No, you did GREAT, making the decisions for everyone in someone else's home |
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Orangepeel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-30-08 09:19 AM Response to Original message |
203. A better answer might have been "I won't be joining, but go ahead" as you reach for the potatoes |
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Pastiche423 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-30-08 09:25 PM Response to Original message |
209. I'm w/the "she asked a question, you answered" camp |
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