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I still stand by what I said, although you might be right about the class thing also. My experience with people of color and how they judge their own based on their skin tone makes me think it is a bit more complicated than just one issue. My children were called "yellow skinned" by members of the African American community, and that related to their skin color, and I have heard other light skinned AAs called the same thing and they were of the same class. I have also had women with darker skin say they are rejected as ugly because of their darkness. They will say it is okay for a man to be dark, but a woman should be lighter. I have also heard women say they will not marry a darker man because they don't want to take a chance on having daughters that are dark. I am not saying this is everyone in the AA community, but it is out there. I would compare it in a way to my daughters seventh grade class in a 99.99% white school, that was made up of girls with all different hair color. When their eighth year of school began I was surprised to see every girl in the class was now blond except for my daughter and the daughter of a well to do banker. It stayed like that for the rest of the school years.
I have spoken to Barack about the fact that children of mixed racial couples have a special problem when it comes to being accepted by those in the community. I told him that some, like my children, are looking to him as a role model and watching to see how the world treats him. When there are attacks like the ones where people say he is not black enough, my son takes it very personal. Some people will say that it is the people's fault who go into a mixed marriage and have children, but I say this is an idiot talking. Most of us are not products of one ethnic group.
My heritage is mixed, and I suspect that there is more mixing than we even know about. My ex husband came from a country that encouraged the mixing of groups, in fact what they encouraged was the "whitening" of their people. We are unsure of all of his family line, but I know that he has European, Caribbean Indian and African. There is a good possibility that he also has Asian, Middle Eastern, and possibly other groups represented. There are twelve children in his family and they range in appearance from a sister as fair as I am to those with brown skin tones. I think it is time that people give up this concept that we should all fit into one category of whether we all belong to one group or another, because although we may belong to an ethnic group most of us do not have genes that come from only one geographical group categorized as a race.
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