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lightningandsnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 08:07 AM
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Who here has signed their organ donor card?
My cousin has survived 3 kidney transplants, 2 of which were from unrelated donors. He's now in his 30s and doing very well.

It's one of the most important things you can do.

http://www.organdonor.gov/

I would also encourage all of you to join the bone marrow donor registry (http://www.marrow.org/). Joining is easy and painless, and doesn't even require a blood test.

Since I'm 17 (as of 2 days ago), I'm now old enough to join the bone marrow registry where I live (Canada). I'm on vacation right now, but I'll be doing that as soon as I get home.

I'm also now old enough to donate blood. Which I would definitely encourage you to do if you can.

Please keep this kicked!
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Lasher Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 08:09 AM
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1. Me!
I'm in. Here in WV we just say yes when we obtain or renew our driver's license.
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shireen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 10:04 AM
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3. same in MD
besides the living will, does there need to be other documentation?
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madrchsod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 08:28 AM
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yes...
if there`s anything useful left in my old body someone is welcome to it....
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no_hypocrisy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 08:28 AM
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2. Attorney checking in. Put in a clause about organ donation in your Living Will and
Health Care Proxy so your health power of attorney has the legal authority without a doubt to donate your body according to your wishes. These documents signed, witnessed, and notarized. The card is a good first step. Carry it with you to save to ensure your donation can be carried out anywhere, any time.
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Mike 03 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 07:04 PM
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17. Yes. I don't have the card, as I used to in California, but the Living Will, which I had to
change.
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donco6 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 10:07 AM
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4. Me, but they won't take any of my parts.
Me being gay and all.

I can't even donate blood.
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lightningandsnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 04:34 PM
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6. That sucks.
Yeah, I have a real problem with some of the criteria they use to exclude people from donating blood/organs/marrow.
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Lisa0825 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 04:42 PM
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8. They may be able to take some for research....
not all "parts" are taken to be used for transplants. Some may be taken for use in research. I just learned about that when I signed up.
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donco6 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 07:56 PM
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22. That'd be fine with me.
Food for worms versus being useful - not a hard decision, really.
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Lisa0825 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 02:33 AM
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41. You might also check with your nearest medical schools....
Some of them have "willed body" programs, where people can choose to have their bodies used to teach medical students as an alternative to being buried.
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LeftishBrit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 10:10 AM
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5. k&r and yes I have one.
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Lisa0825 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 04:40 PM
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7. I did! And it was because of a DUer...
I don't remember who it was, but someone has the link http://www.donatelife.net/ in their signature. I clicked on it and signed up online, and they will be mailing me a card and other info.
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Maeve Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 04:48 PM
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9. Both Hubby and I have--and another story
My father-in-law died just before Thanksgiving of a brain aneurysm. MIL, Hubby and SIL agreed he would have wanted anything used that could be, so they did a fairly complete harvest. Others will see, will heal, will live. And it makes MIL pleased to think that a bit of him lives on in those 'gifts'.
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yorgatron Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 05:17 PM
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11. already donated
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renate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 09:18 PM
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33. I'm sorry about your father-in-law
The family's decision is a lovely tribute to him, knowing as they did that he would have wanted to help others.
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proud patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 05:14 PM
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10. Yes
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Obamanaut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 05:19 PM
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12. Me. It's marked on driver license. nt
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Spirochete Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 06:58 PM
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13. It's on my drivers license.
Has been for 20 years.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 07:00 PM
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14. Another one with a marked driver's license.
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Dappleganger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 07:00 PM
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15. Yes, always been that way. They can have it all because you can't take it with you!
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Mike 03 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 07:03 PM
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16. I'm in the process of changing this now.
My will has me as "not" a donor because I was paranoid that doctors might hasten my death. But having been more involved in the medical community these past two years, I know that was a foolish worry.

So I am now an organ donor.

This is a crucial issue.
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TZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 07:10 PM
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18. I'm a donor BUT
Idon't think anything I have is usable..me having a chronic disease and all...however, someday I may need some of that bone marrow on the registry, so please join for people like me....
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mucifer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 08:16 PM
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24. I know that people who die from cancer often can donate their corneas.
It's great you are on the list.
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Toasterlad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 07:35 PM
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19. Yes. It's on My Driver's License, and My Family is Fully Aware Of and Will Comply With My Wishes.
Edited on Fri Dec-26-08 07:37 PM by Toasterlad
Thanks for this reminder to everyone, AspieGrrl. This is very important stuff. Quite frankly, I consider consciously NOT agreeing to donate your organs is the epitome of selfishness. Basically what you're saying is, I would rather my organs rot in the ground than help someone else.
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sentelle Donating Member (659 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 07:44 PM
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20. No one can have my organs until I'm done with them.
I don't trust that a doctor, once they see I am on the organ donation list, will take every effort to keep me alive, or to ensure that I am really dead before they take my body parts.

Too much money for doctors in organ transplant surgery for me to be comfortable.
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 07:52 PM
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21. 15 yrs w.out health insurance
and yes that's what made the decision for me to stop signing my driver's license, i don't believe that my life would be perceived of any value, whereas the money to be made by the organ transplant doctors is just too great

i've also heard tales of families being charged for the additional time that the family member is on the machines while awaiting harvest of the organs, 1 more day doesn't sound like so much...until you hear that it's thousands of dollars charged to the family

if i thought my OWN peeps would profit after my death from the sale of my organs (because they ARE sold, the docs, hospitals, and insurance co's aren't doing this for free) then i might feel differently -- but for now -- no, i can't accept the chance that i myself and/or my survivors would be physically or financially harmed because i was trying to help a stranger

they need to make it "worth it"

donate half of the six figures the hospital is making to my survivors and i would sign that organ donor card in a heartbeat...but i do not want them to end up getting hurt financially because i was trying to look like a hero...i don't have to live w. the decision, they do
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 09:14 AM
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53. Well, you believe wrong
And people may potentially die because of that.
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 09:13 PM
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29. My feelings exactly.
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 09:11 AM
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50. Oh for fucks sake
Ignorant and selfish, what a combo.
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ileus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 08:13 PM
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23. There's a heart on my drivers....
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jhain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 08:21 PM
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25. Me
been meaning to join the bone marrow registry- thanks for the nudge.
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mucifer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 08:22 PM
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26. If anyone is feeling generous you can for 50 dollars go on the bone marrow registry
list. They send you a kit in the mail where you swab the inside of your mouth and send it back in. If you are in a racial minority group there are often bone marrow drives where for free they can put you on the list after taking some mouth swab samples.

http://www.marrow.org/HELP/Join_the_Donor_Registry/index.html
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sentelle Donating Member (659 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 08:55 PM
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28. And how much...
Does it cost to have your marrow harvested (for lack of a better word) for someone else's use?

Being in the hospital to donate something like marrow still costs money, and insurance companies use it to jack up the cost of ins.

Someone at my job donated bone marrow. Next year, our premiums were made twice the price.

I realise that it seems cruel, but, I am too poor to give anything up, even marrow. I don't want to risk bankruptcy for it.
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renate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 09:28 PM
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37. it costs a fair amount to register--I think around $50
Although if you're a member of an ethnic group for which there aren't a lot of people registered, you might be able to get the fee waived.

I would bet that the increase in premiums was either coincidental or due to another coworker's condition that you may not have known about, because when I registered I was told that if I were ever contacted to donate marrow there's no cost to the donor (unless, perhaps, there are complications... it didn't occur to me to ask about that).
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blaze Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 09:24 AM
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56. Registration was free through my blood bank
I had no idea it cost to register in some places!
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 01:57 PM
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60. it's free when the blood bank does marrow registry drives
:)
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 09:12 AM
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51. Correlation does not equal causation
:eyes:
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pacalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 08:31 PM
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27. It's indicated on my driver's license that I'm an organ donor.
I'll even throw in my eyeglasses for whoever gets my eyes.
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Lugnut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 09:14 PM
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30. I have.
It's on my driver's license and I have a Living Will.
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 09:14 PM
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31. Yep. And I am in the Gallon club for blood donors. It is very easy to donate blood.
The bone marrow registry is something I have yet to do.
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4 t 4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 09:17 PM
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32. k & r
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 04:10 AM
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48. Marrow registry's easy, you just do a cheek swab.
You might be able to sign up through your blood bank too. I tried doing it through ours, but they charge for it to cover costs, though sometimes they get grants to cover the testing, especially if you're a member of a minority group that's underrepresented on the list. I did mine for free in the mail via a link somebody posted on DU a few years back.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 01:58 PM
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61. I just got a 30 gallon pin from Carter Bloodcare
but that's just since I've been in this area; I actually have way more than that :D
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Prisoner_Number_Six Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 09:18 PM
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34. I can't donate.
Not even blood- I'm on some heavy duty arthritis medication that precludes me from it.

:cry:
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Greyhound Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 09:19 PM
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35. Me. K&R
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 09:24 PM
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36. me
I am also on the bone marrow registry and I am a regular platelet donor
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intheflow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 09:42 PM
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38. Me!
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Sanctified Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 09:45 PM
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39. Until they take the obscene profits out of the Donor system I won't.
It's disgusting how much money the hospital and doctors make off of something that someone freely gives, it's also disgusting that the rich get easy access to organs while the poor are pretty much screwed.
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Gemini Cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 02:54 AM
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43. So, you'd let someone die?
Give me a fucking break. I know many people who have received a much needed organ and they were poor.
Organs are given to people who need them to stay alive. Rich or poor it doesn't matter.
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Sanctified Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 04:06 AM
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47. I would take death over participating in the sickness that is our organ donors system. n/t
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 09:13 AM
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52. That's pretty much what they're saying
My father had an organ transplant and we certainly were not rich.
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Orangepeel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 02:13 PM
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63. nobody in the United States has "easy" access.
it is true that it is essentially impossible to get approved for a transplant without health insurance -- not only for the cost of the transplant but because of the expensive medication that is necessary afterward. Of course, that wouldn't be a problem if everyone had health care costs covered and if there weren't such a shortage of organs.

Perhaps a very rich person could go to another country and purchase an organ at a for-profit hospital. But in the United States, most hospitals are nonprofit and UNOS keeps tight control.

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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-26-08 10:17 PM
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40. That's Very Fortunate for Your Cousin
However, organ donation is a very personal decision and the pressure that people are put under is out of line, IMO.
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tomreedtoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 02:53 AM
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42. Been on my driver's license for years, but...
...they'll get my kidneys when I'm damn good and done with them. Not that I'm a heavy drinker, but I love diet soda, and I'm not going to give up on it because some kid wants fresh and clean kidneys after I die. Remember, when I die, the world ends.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 03:06 AM
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44. My dear AspieGrrl!
I have signed my Organ Donor card, and they can have anything they can use once I'm done with this body...

Unfortunately, I am too old now to be in the Bone Marrow Registry; you have to be under 61, I think.

But still, I do what I can.

K&R

:yourock:
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 03:18 AM
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45. It's taped to my ID.
Just to make sure it's found if I'm in an accident or something. My various emergency contacts all know I'm a donor, too.

I don't know anybody with a transplanted organ, I'm just anti-waste generally and don't see the point in disposing of bits that still work.
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Fearless Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 03:25 AM
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46. No card in MA, it's on the driver's license... And yes I have.
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Are_grits_groceries Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 08:31 AM
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49. Me! in SC....... nt
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Bertha Venation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 09:14 AM
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54. Oh, how I wish I could.
Hepatitis C here. :(
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ThomWV Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 09:15 AM
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55. Yes - West Virginia denotes it on the Driver's License
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2Design Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 01:45 PM
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57. yes n/t
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CANDO Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 01:55 PM
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58. I did last summer when I renewed my drivers license.
On December 17th, 2005 a good friend and co-worker died after being involved in a truck accident. He was a fellow truck driver and Teamster brother and he must have drifted off the road and hit an abandoned vehicle along the shoulder. He was pronouced dead the next morning. He was an organ donor. I could not believe the amount of organs and tissue they harvest from a deceased person! For a long time, I never saw myself as an organ donor. I couldn't stand the thought of parts of my body being "harvested". It just seemed wrong. I've since come around to realize the gift of life this represents. If you are gone, it's forever. You will never know the difference. But the many people who benefit from your gift will!
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Orangepeel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 01:57 PM
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59. the most important thing is to tell your relatives that you want to be a donor
the signed card is good, but your relatives still have to consent. If you are willing to be a donor (and thank you if you are), please make sure that your family knows it.
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City Lights Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-27-08 02:00 PM
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62. Me. nt
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