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mobile moving above him. They filmed the baby at regular speed, and he seemed to be making random gestures, thrusting his arms here and there. But when they slowed the film speed down, you could see that every one of his gestures was an attempt to grab one of the objects in the mobile, which he was tracking with his eyes. He couldn't sit up and get closer, and try to grab them for real. And probably his grasp would have been imperfect. But it was like he was rehearsing for the time when he could actually grab, inspect, look at, eat?, the moving objects. Nova tracked it and showed the lines from eye to hand to distant object. It was amazing to watch.
This was an important lesson for me when I became a mom. I observed these kinds of gestures, encouraged them, put objects out of reach then brought them into grasp range, etc., with my baby. (He turned into a VERY smart kid and adult--and I think how he was raised had something to do with it.) I think almost nothing babies do is random. I think they almost always have a plan in mind, or are exercising some pre-cognitive ability (for instance, babbling is an attempt to replicate what they hear, and eventually they get it right).
If that Nova could be shown to all expectant mothers, it would be great. If you believe in the intelligence of your baby, he/she actually becomes more intelligent. Babies who don't have a mom, dad or someone else who understands their difficult intellectual/physical journey will likely have a hard time catching up. The human mind is an amazing thing, though. It is incredibly adaptable, and continues to learn. Some things might be harder to learn later, but that doesn't mean anyone should give up. The stories about stroke victims, with partially damaged brains, learning to talk again by using another part of the brain, tell us how adaptable our brains are. It's a true truism that, if you learn two languages in infancy, it's MUCH easier for you to learn additional languages later, but if you're limited to one language in infancy, you can still learn more languages--it just takes more work. The same with kids who may have been deprived because their parents weren't aware of the problems that their infants were trying to solve, nor the meaning of their infants' various gestures. The child or later adult needs to find a way around that early handicap--and there should be educational programs designed to do that.
I think, though, that the most important things are hard to quantify: love and approval. People don't need much encouragement to learn. We are pre-programmed to learn. We should be more into removing obstacles to learning, than trying to pour knowledge into kids' heads, as if they were empty vessels. So, if lack of recognition of your gestures when you were an infant is an obstacle to your acquiring a richer vocabulary, later on, then the educational system should find some way around (or a way to remedy) that handicap. Perhaps kids should throw a ball back and forth between them as they shout out new words. Something like that. Re-coordinate the physical gestures with the brain synapses for new words.
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