I've never had a serious debt problem and I've learned a lot from people I know who've read "How to Get Out of Debt" and who've attended DA meetings.
"How to Get Out of Debt" and DA help people learn their rights, learn how to stand up to creditors, how to stop under-earning and how to earn to live rather than live to earn.
I have a friend who teaches art at a local public school who has saved enough money that she is about to take a year off and work on her art portfolio so that she can apply to a Masters in Fine Arts program -- she's saved up enough to live on for a year and has an emergency stash in case she needs it.
I started getting my financial house in order after the theft of the 2004 election -- when I downsized my house and started saving enough money to be able to pay my mortgage for a year, just in case.
The women you met sounds very industrious -- she might be able to earn more money with a stay-at-home job than she can earn by having a job at a typical place of business. There are online DA meetings if she lives somewhere that doesn't have DA meetings.
DA
http://debtorsanonymous.org/How to Get Out of Debt, Stay Out of Debt, and Live Prosperously
http://www.amazon.com/How-Debt-Stay-Live-Prosperously/dp/0553283960