I believe that you are telling th\e truth as you see it, but he lived his life day by day, you didn't. When I talk to people that I went to high school with, it's stunning how our memories and perceptions of events vary. How many people look on their immature habit of bullying people as good hearted joshing?
As for those who contend Hawaii was a Paradise of multiculturalism when Obama was growing up:
http://www.h-net.org/reviews/showrev.cgi?path=321991117225545This perspective of Hawaii, according to Jonathan Okamura, "as having especially tolerant, harmonious, and egalitarian race relations has continued to be advanced from the 1940s to the present." Advanced by scholars such as sociologist Andrew Lind, the Hawaiian Islands were "presented as an exemplary model with valuable lessons to offer other ethnically/racially divided societies in managing their conflicts and problems resulting from ethnic and racial diversity."<3> Indeed, even today the notion of the "spirit of aloha" is so widespread that many long-time residents categorically deny that racial discrimination exists in Hawaii. A decidedly different picture of Hawaiian society in the 1960s is supplied by Lieutenant General Frank Petersen, the USMC's first African-American aviator, however. He writes, "The fact that we were in Hawaii, and considering the makeup of that population, I didn't anticipate a problem finding a place for my family and me to live….A problem finding housing? You've got to be kidding, I told myself….I was as wrong as the proverbial two left shoes…."<4> Hawaii in the 1960s was quietly discriminatory. And the hell of it was that it wasn't just the whites who were doing the discriminating. Hawaiians didn't really mingle with anyone else. The Japanese had their own community. It all was a definite eye-opener. The web of discrimination may have existed quietly, but it became a cacophony when someone tried to pierce it.