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Is it when folks broad brush a whole group based on the actions of some in a negative manner?
Is it when we enforce a stereotype of a group based on our experiences (ala cops, repubs, people of any religion, folks of a specific religion, et al)?
Is it when we spread fear of a certain person or persons or groups because we see them as a whole as 'bad' even when some (or many) within that group do not conform to our view of them?
I know many decent cops, Christians, Republicans (My bro-in-law is one, who voted for Obama), gun owners, etc and so on who don't fit the stereotype (and I thought those things were bad anyway, something I learned in 5th grade and I am 43) of said group.
As a liberal I believe that there are many good folks out there in this big tent, and just because they belong to group X and some in group X do wrong or believe Y does not make all in group X bad.
If we keep on focusing on the negative for a certain group are we no better than those on the rw who do the same - cherry pick events/ideals/etc to try and demonize a group while ignoring those many who have done good?
I am sure as hell no Catholic, but I can see that all are not bad and out to get me. I don't believe in Buddha as being the one way to the path of Enlightenment, but I won't tell those that do that they are just believing in some magical mystical being and that having a religion makes them evil because some having a religion have done so.
Own a gun? I don't, but those that do are not the problem to me - those that use a weapon, from their fists to whatever are the issue.
You are an American Indian and believe in Wonka Tonka, Spirits of the trees, etc - I don't see you as bad, and I won't make fun of you for your beliefs. I have mine, you have yours.
Atheist? Fine by me, I don't see any reason to drag out history of anyone who was atheist to make you all look bad.
I see people as standing on their own two feet - and when they do wrong, they are to blame. Not their faith, not their reason for doing it, but their actions. And I don't associate their own personal actions with those of the group.
As a liberal I see people as being responsible and intelligent enough to make their own choices for their own reasons. I don't blame whole groups usually (except when it comes to the RW, where we have a whole group en masse opposed to our ideals).
Why do we often rail against a group and then yell at those same groups for doing the same thing we are doing in regards to them??
Is it because maybe we feel the same, but we feel it is justified when we do it? How is it ever justified when we condemn a whole group for the actions of some in that same group?
Either we believe stereotypes are wrong or we don't.
And either we believe talking badly about a whole group is wrong over what some in that group have done is wrong or we don't.
We can't have it both ways.
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